Self-compassion is the act of treating yourself as you would any other loved one: treating yourself with kindness vs. Self-Judgment.
Self compassion is a modality that is being researched for treatments for mental health conditions, preventing burnout, improving motivation, body image, resilience, and in clinical settings for the helping professions.
The leading expert on self-compassion, Kristen Neff, PhD, defines self-compassion in three ways:
Mindfulness
Invoking a sense of common humanity
Self-acceptance vs. self-judgement
This 3 minute self compassion break can be done in a moment of difficulty, such as in the presence of strong emotions, physical sensations, self-criticizing thoughts, or in the face of failure. It can be done on a daily basis or when difficulty is present.
Step 1:
Adopt a posture that invokes a sense of self compassion. The posture to adopt is traditionally placing hands on the heart, but can also be hands placed on the neck, or a mudra. Touch releases oxytocin, our “love hormone” which releases feelings of calm, love and connection, even when it’s our own hands being placed on our own body.
Step 2:
Either to yourself, or out loud, say these three sentences.
This is a moment of suffering. This is mindfulness, acknowledging that suffering is present and turning towards, as opposed to turning away from difficulty.
Suffering is a part of life. Other alternatives to this are: other people feel this way. This is invoking the sense of common humanity, reminding yourself that you are not alone and other people on earth have felt or are currently feeling this way.
May I give myself the compassion I need. This is setting an intention to be kinder to oneself. Other alternatives are: may I be kind to myself, or may I try to accept myself as I am.
For more on Self-Compassion, to access more of Kirsten Neff’s research, and for free resources, visit selfcompassion.org
This is one of my favourite exercises from Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy, or MBCT, and just one exercise in an 8-week course directed at those who suffer from depression and anxiety.
This exercise helps us practice staying with difficult thoughts, emotions, and body sensations, teaching us to turn towards difficulty, rather than turning away.
It is better to do this exercise when difficulty is already present.
Try to use a 10 lb weight, not a 100 lb weight. However, in many situations, we don’t get to choose. If the practice is particularly intense, you can perhaps focus on the breath, or open your eyes and let go of the practice.
Note: this video is to support a mindfulness practice and to use in conjunction with help from a licensed mental health professional.
Since publising the original article about the Mirena IUD on this blog, thousands of women have come out of the woodwork writing to me asking for help.
When I originally wrote the article, I was spurned on by my observations of the women in my practice who had experienced a rise in estrogen dominance and low progesterone after the insertion of their IUDs (which were often inserted to treat hormone imbalances!).
At that point I never imagined that so many women would be affected by the IUD, or that even more were suffering from so many hormonal symptoms that drastically affected their lives and health.
It makes sense: our society does not set us up for proper hormonal function.
Our diets are carbohydrate-heavy, promoting insulin resistance and blood sugar dysregulation, which impacts our ovaries’ ability to make estrogen properly.
An excess amount of body fat produces more estrogen in the body and acts as a reservoir for the toxic estrogens in our environment.
We lack many of the micronutrients necessary to process our hormones properly, such as vitamin D, B vitamins, magnesium, zinc, omega 3 fatty acids, glutathione, and amino acids.
Many of us have impaired or suboptimal liver function, or sluggish digestion, which keeps hormones in our bodies around longer than they should be.
A dysbiotic gut has the tendency to turn estrogen in the gut back “on”, putting it back into circulation when it was otherwise on its way out of the body.
Stress alters our hormonal function, including our ability to make progesterone, DHEA-S, convert thyroid hormones, and process estrogen properly.
Xenoestrogens in our food and environment, from plastics, fragrances, pesticides, and processed soy products, contribute to overall body burden of the hormones in our body, throwing off our delicate balance, and contributing to symptoms.
The result of all this is that many women suffer from hormonal imbalances.
10% of women have some form of PCOS, or Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, characterized by the body’s inability to properly make progesterone or estrogen, instead making loads of male hormones, like testosterone. PCOS alters fertility, promotes weight gain, and causes things like unwanted facial hair growth, acne, and missed periods. PCOS is often connected to stress and insulin resistance.
Many women in my practice suffer from PMS or PMDD, experiencing often debilitating symptoms sometimes even two weeks before their periods begin. They might get migraines, intense cravings for sugar, and massive mood changes, such as anxiety, intense irritability, or devastating depression. Panic attacks can occur at this time as well. Many of them comment that their mood and personalities flip once their hormones levels reach a certain point, causing them to act like different people. This can jeopardize their relationships with spouses and children, coworkers, friends and family.
Tender and painful breasts, or breast lumps, are also common in many of these women.
Acne, weight gain, stress, fatigue, disrupted sleep, depression and anxiety are all symptoms I see in women with hormonal imbalances.
Many women have horrific cycles, experiencing painful and heavy periods that often cause them to miss days of work every month. Many of these women struggle to keep their iron levels in the optimal range, suffering from hair loss, fatigue and weakness.
Many women are diagnosed with fibroids, or endometriosis, or are concerned about their risk of female cancers like breast, ovarian, uterine and cervical cancer.
All of these symptoms are often linked to relatively higher levels of estrogens compared to progesterone, sometimes termed Estrogen Dominance by functional medical practitioners who look at the underlying causes of bodily imbalances.
I feel terrible that I can’t help more of the women who write to me. My license prevents me from giving advice to those who live abroad, especially to non-patients over the internet. It’s a shame, however, because oftentimes the solutions are relatively simple, despite how complicated many of these symptoms might seem.
I’m hoping that this article can provide some direction to many of the women who suffer.
Firstly, I want to state that I am not against birth control or even the Mirena IUD (or other IUDs, for that matter). The vast majority of women with the IUD tolerate it. For many women with debilitating heavy periods and endometriosis it can be the only viable solution that makes life tolerable.
In my social practice at Evergreen, many of the women I see experiencing homelessness, drug addiction, or PTSD from relationship trauma, rely on the efficacy of IUDs to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Their lives often don’t allow for them to remember to consistently take pills every month.
Many women don’t tolerate combination birth control because of a history of blood clots, female cancers, or migraine headaches associated with their periods, and therefore the Mirena IUD, which is progesterone only, is a safe alternative for preventing unwanted pregnancy.
That all being said, many women do suffer on the Mirena IUD (or other forms of birth control). They were perhaps put on the Mirena to deal with some of the above symptoms of hormonal imbalance, or for contraception. Many of them noticed that their symptoms became worse after insertion of the IUD.
How the Mirena IUD and Birth Control Works:
The Mirena works by secreting small amounts of progestins, a synthetic form of progesterone, into the uterus and surrounding tissues. While it is not fully known how the Mirena works, the end result is a suppression of ovulation. This results in either very light periods or a complete cessation of periods until the IUD is removed (after 5 years when its hormones run out).
It is important to say here that, while birth control can certainly treat the symptoms of hormonal imbalances, it does not correct them.
All forms of birth control, with their synthetic versions of the hormones estrogen and progesterone, simply induce further hormone imbalances in the body. They introduce versions of hormones that may suppress or alter symptoms (such as heavy and painful bleeding, or acne), but the versions of hormones are not fully recognized by the body and therefore don’t fully replace all the hormones’ important functions, such as mood regulation, immunity, or blood sugar balance.
The effects of both altering the body’s natural hormonal balance, while ignoring the underlying cause of hormonal issues, is often what causes symptoms to continue or worsen.
For example, women with PCOS are prescribed birth control to manage acne or promote monthly periods. However, when women with PCOS miss periods, it is because they are not ovulating. The missed periods are not the problem; the lack of ovulation is.
Despite that, many women with PCOS experiencing amenorrhea (or missed cycles) will be prescribed birth control. However, birth control does not address the underlying cause of amenorrhea. It simply further suppresses ovulation (because its main purpose is to prevent unwanted pregnancy).
The periods you get while on birth control are not periods. Periods from birth control are withdrawal bleeds. After 21 days of taking hormonal pills, pills are stopped or replaced with placebo pills. The withdrawal of hormones in the pills induces a bleed that resembles a period, but is not one.
Hormonal contraception does not correct hormonal imbalance, it imposes further hormonal imbalance to manage symptoms. This is not always bad!
But it is an important difference.
Many women do require symptom suppression, particularly if their symptoms are severe. Many individuals in my practice experience periods so heavy that the only way for them to get through the month is with an IUD. Genetic variability in how our bodies process hormones can make us susceptible to intense hormonal symptoms, through no fault of our own.
In my opinion, however, it is important to attempt to address the underlying cause and to set our bodies up for better hormonal regulation, making as many changes as our lifestyles will allow.
What You Can Do About It:
If you are like any of the people I described above who seek my help, there are a few things that you can do to get started on correcting hormones.
Working With a Professional:
The first thing I advise is finding a licensed naturopathic doctor or functional medicine practitioner who understands hormones, can order lab tests, and will address the underlying cause of your hormonal imbalances by taking the time to fully understand your body and lifestyle.
This practitioner might be a naturopathic doctor (you can find one in North America by looking one up at naturopathic.org), or a medical doctor, a chiropractor, or a highly skilled nutritionist or nurse practitioner. Research this person well, read their articles, and perhaps book in with them for a complimentary meet and greet.
Testing:
I often test patients using simple blood tests, on day 21 of their cycles (or about 7-9 days before they expect their next period).
I will test their blood, looking for anemia, will test iron and B12 levels, homocysteine (to gauge their ability to methylate), vitamin D, cholesterol (to see if their diets are promoting proper hormone synthesis), estradiol, estrone (the more toxic, problematic estrogen), progesterone, free testosterone, a thyroid panel, fasting glucose and fasting insulin (to calculate insulin resistance using something called the HOMA-IR), HbA1C (to look a long-term blood glucose control), FSH and LH (two hormones made in the brain that talk to the ovaries and orchestrate the menstrual cycle), DHEA-S, to name a few.
Some women will require more testing. Others will require less.
These labs are interpreted from a functional perspective. Even though you are in the “normal” ranges (which take into account the entire population, many of which are not healthy—they are seeing their doctors, after all!), these blood markers may not be optimally balanced, giving us an opportunity to correct things before they go further.
Testing allows us to match symptoms to underlying imbalances and to be able to properly direct treatment protocols. Women with estrogen dominance may be experiencing high levels of estrogen and normal progesterone, which indicates a body burden of estrogen or impaired liver and digestive system clearance. Other women may be experiencing normal levels of estrogen but low progesterone, indicating a failure of their bodies to ovulate, due to high stress, and PCOS (or the Mirena IUD and birth control pill).
Other options for hormonal testing are month-long salivary hormone testing, or DUTCH testing, which looks at hormone breakdown in the urine. I sometimes run these tests, but find that blood testing is useful, accurate, and more cost-effective.
Treatment:
Once you understand your individual hormonal situation through testing (and through working with a practitioner who is putting the testing together with your symptoms and health history), your practitioner may recommend a variety of treatments.
I personally combine diet and lifestyle with key herbal and nutritional supplements, to target what is going on under the surface with my particular patients.
These treatments may include herbs that boost ovulation, aid liver detoxification, or regulate the stress response. I might recommend nutraceuticals that encourage methylation, or aid in hormone production.
My treatments take into account the individual’s symptoms, labs, diet, lifestyle, and any other health issues she may be facing like fatigue, digestive disturbances, or poor sleep.
What You Can Do Today:
Barring more individualized assessment and advice, there are some best lifestyle practices that can help most women balance their hormones better, whether they are still using birth control to control and address their hormonal symptoms or prevent pregnancy.
Diet:
When it comes to diet and hormone support, we need to ensure that we are balancing blood sugar, boosting liver detoxification pathways, promoting hormone synthesis, and supporting digestion, especially if experiencing constipation.
Consume more leafy greens: kale, spinach, collards, beet greens, arugula, etc. Eat 1-2 cups of these foods every day. Leafy greens contain active folate, which boosts methylation and detoxification. They also contain magnesium which is essential for hormonal regulation as well as 300 other important biochemical reactions in the body that balance mood and hormones.
Consume more cruciferous vegetables: broccoli, cauliflower, brussel sprouts, cabbage, bok choy, etc. Eat 1-2 cups of these foods every day. Crucifates help the body make glutathione, and contain indole-3-carbinole, which helps eliminate excess estrogens from the body. Broccoli sprouts are potent players in these pathways. Consume them as often as possible.
Ensure adequate dietary fibre intake: I often recommend ground flaxseeds or chia seeds in smoothies, avocados, fruits and vegetables and legumes (if tolerated) to make sure that women are having regular bowel movements to clear excess estrogens out of the body. 2 tbs of ground flaxseed (or more) every day can help balance estrogen levels and promote daily bowel movements.
Balance blood sugar: consume protein, fat and fibre at every meal. Avoid refined starches and flours. Avoid all sugar, even natural sugar like maple syrup, coconut sugar, cane sugar, honey, agave, etc. Try stevia or avoid sweets. Limit carbs (grains, legumes, root vegetables like potatoes or sweet potatoes, to 1/2 cup to 1 cup per meal). Only consume whole grains like quinoa, buckwheat, steel cut oats, millet, and teff. Cook them yourself!
Avoid soy, particularly processed soy, like vegan burgers, or soy milk.
Consume omega 3 fatty acids in fatty fish like salmon and sardines, or nuts and seeds like flax and chia seeds, walnuts, and pumpkin seeds. Get 2-4 tablespoons of these nuts and seeds every day and 3-4 servings of fatty fish a week.
Consume animal products: eggs contain choline, which is essential for liver function, meat contains vitamins B6 and B12, which are essential for hormonal regulation and production. Cholesterol in animal products are the backbones of our sex hormones. Iodine, found in animal foods, regulates estrogen balance in the body. If possible, try to obtain organic animal products from pastured or free-range animals to boost omega 3 intake, to lower your impact on the environment, and to promote animal welfare.
Other Lifestyle Practices:
Boost progesterone production by managing stress:
Establish a self-care routine: plan regular vacations, even small outings, do meditation or yoga, take breaks from work, spend quality time with family, have a plan to get your work done on time, ask for help.
Sleep! Aim for at least 8 hours of sleep, and try to get to bed before 12am. Practice good sleep hygiene by avoiding electronics before bed, keeping the bedroom as dark as possible, and setting a bedtime and wake time, even on weekends. Body scan meditations and some key supplements can be helpful for resetting circadian rhythms. Regulating blood sugar can have a major impact on improving sleep. Talk to your functional medicine doctor or naturopathic doctor for individualized sleep solutions.
Eliminate exposure to toxic estrogens and boost estrogen clearance:
Avoid exposure to xenoestrogens: whenever possible use natural body products, deodorants and shampoos, or “edible” body products for face and hair. Avoid plastic water bottles and plastic food containers. Use natural cleaning products around the house. Avoid fragrances and processed foods, especially processed soy.
Encourage sweating: get regular exercise or engage in regular sauna therapy. If you don’t have access to a sauna, epsom salt baths can also work—anything that helps you sweat. Heat therapy has also been shown to benefit mood and the stress response.
Heal your digestion: make this a priority with your naturopathic doctor, so that you can absorb the nutrients from the foods you’re eating as well as encourage daily bowel movements and optimal microbiome balance.
Maintain a healthy weight: body fat is metabolically active and can increase overall estrogenic load. Work with your naturopathic doctor to manage your weight. We often attempt to lose weight to become healthy, however I find my patients have far more success (and fun!) getting healthy in order to lose weight. Healthy weight loss often involves managing stress, sleeping 8 hours a night, avoiding sugar and processed foods, and regulating blood sugar, as well as encouraging proper sweating and liver detoxification.
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I often encourage my patients to write a letter to themselves on their birthdays for the following year using a website called FutureMe.org, where you can post-date emails to yourself to any date in the future. This exercise is great to do on any day, really. Tomorrow is my birthday. I’ll be 32. Here is my letter.
This is it.
This is your life.
As Cheryl Strayed wrote, “The f— is your life. Answer it.”
There are some things that you thought were temporary, mere stepping stones on your way to someplace better, that you now realize are familiar friends, ever present in their essence, but varying in their specific details.
For instance:
1) You will ride buses.
You will never escape the bus. For a while taking the bus was seen as a temporary stop on your way to something else (a car?). You took the bus as a pre-teen, excited to finally be allowed to venture to parts of town alone. As a student, you took the bus to the mall, laughing at the ridiculousness of Kingston, Ontario, once you’d left the protective bubble of the student community, completely inappropriately, yet affectionately (and ignorantly) called The Ghetto.
You will visit other ghettos, also by bus, that are far more deserving of their names. However these ghettos will instead have hopeful names such as El Paraiso, or La Preserverancia. Those who live there will persevere. So will you.
Buses will take you over the mountains of Guatemala, to visit student clients in Bogota, Columbia. To desirable areas of Cartagena. You’ll ride them through India. They will carry you through Asia, bringing you to trains and airports.
You’ll ride buses as a doctor. You’ll ride the bus to your clinic every day.
Sometimes, on long busy days in Toronto, it’ll seem like you’ll spend all day trapped in a bus.
The bus is not a temporary reality of your life. The bus is one of the “f—s” of your life. You’ll learn to answer it. You’ll learn to stop dissociating from the experience of “getting somewhere” and realize you are always somewhere. Life is happening right here, and sometimes “right here” is on the seat of a bus. Eventually you start to open up, to live there. You start to live in the understanding that the getting somewhere is just as important as (maybe more than) arriving.
We breathe to fill our empty lungs. Almost immediately after they’re full, the desire to empty them overwhelms. Similarly, you board a bus to get somewhere, while you’re on the bus, you start to understand.
You’re already here.
Maybe you’ll graduate some day, to a car.
But sooner or later, you’ll board a bus.
And ride it again.
2). You’ll experience negative emotion, no matter who you are or what your life circumstance.
Rejection, worthlessness, sadness, and heart break, are constant friends. Sometimes they’ll go on vacation. They’ll always visit again.
You will never reach the shores of certainty. You will never be “done”. You may take consolation in momentary pauses, where you note your confidence has found a rock to rest its head against. But you’ll grow bored of your rock (it is just a rock, lifeless, after all). You’ll then dive back into the deep waters of doubt, risk despair, and swim again.
Happiness isn’t a final destination. Instead, it’s a roadside Starbucks: a place to refuel, and maybe passing through is an encouragement you’re headed in the right direction.
3). The people in your life are like wisps of smoke.
They will come and go. Some of them will simply whiff towards you, visiting momentarily. Their names you’ll hardly remember. You’ll share ice cream and one deep, healing conversation about love that you’ll remember for years to come. You’ll reflect on this person’s words whenever you consider loving someone again.
You’ll remember the ice cream, the warm sea breeze, the thirst that came afterwards, the laughter. But it will be hard to remember his name… David? Daniel? You won’t keep in touch, but you’ll have been touched.
There will be others who come to seek your help. You might help them. You might not. They might come back regardless, or never return. Many times it will have nothing to do with the quality of your help. Or you.
Sometimes the smoke from the flame will thicken as you breathe oxygen into it. People will come closer, you’ll draw them in, inhale them.
Sometimes you’ll cough and blow others away.
You’ll wonder if that was a wise choice. You’ll think that it probably was.
Does a flame lament the ever-changing smoke it emits? Does the surrounding air try to grasp it? Do either personalize the dynamic undulations of smoke, that arise from the candle, dance in the fading light and dissipate?
Flames don’t own their smoke. They don’t seem to believe that the smoke blows away from them repelled by some inherent deficiency in them. Flames seem to accept the fact that smoke rises and disappears, doing as it’s always done.
4). Not everything is about you.
There will be times when failure lands in your lap. You’ll wonder if it’s because there is some nascent problem with you, that only others can see. These failures will tempt you to go searching for it.
You’ll find these faults. These deficiencies. In yourself, in others, in life itself.
You’ll wonder if it explains your failures. You’ll wonder why the failures had to happen to you.
You think that people can smell something on you, that your nose is no longer able to detect, like overwhelming perfume that your senses have grown used to, but that assaults the senses of others around you.
Failure and rejection, cause your heart to ache. Your heart aches, as all hearts do. The hearts of the virtuous, famous, heroic, and rich ache just as hard. The hearts of those who have committed evil deeds also split apart. (The only hearts that don’t may be the truly broken, the irredeemable. And those people are rare.)
You will experience joys. Your heart will mend and break, a thousands times.
And it has nothing to do with you.
5). Success is not a final destination.
There are no destinations. You will ride buses, you will feel happy, you will feel joy. You will try. You will succeed.
And you won’t.
You’ll pick up the pieces of your broken heart. You will mend them. You will flag down the next bus.
You will board it.
You will grasp—you can’t help it. Grasping will only push the wisps of smoke away, causing it to disappear in your hands. This will frustate you, but you’ll keep doing it.
Over and over.
And failing.
You’ll grasp some more and come up empty, thinking that it is because something is wrong with me. There is lots wrong with you.
There is lots right with you.
Most things have nothing to do with you. (That might be just as painful to accept
But healing as well.)
No one said healing didn’t hurt. Sometimes it f—ing hurts! But, as Cheryl Strayed wrote, “the f— is your life”.
Mindfulness philosophy tells us that our thoughts and emotions are simply phenomena that arise in our bodies and minds: they are not us.
Those of us who suffer from depression and anxiety tend to enter cycles of over-thinking. The mind wanders and engages in self-focused rumination that feeds negative emotions, worsening mood.
While ruminating, we think about the causes and consequences of our depression; we reflect on mistakes we’ve made in the past, we dwell on our perceived personal faults, and we speculate about how we’ll fare negatively in the future.
This kind of rumination becomes a scratch-itch cycle that causes us to feel worse.
However, learning to engage the contents of self-focussed mind-wandering as a non-judgmental observer may be the key to stopping this cycle.
Those who are able to step back and become aware of awareness or think about thoughts, as opposed to getting lost in them, tend to have better control over their thought processes as a whole, and thus their emotions. Mindfulness involves taking a non-judgmental, curious stance about the contents of the mind, as an impartial witness.
Studies show that mindfulness, or taking this non-judgmental, curious stance, can change brain areas associated with rumination, and emotional regulation.
This fall I took a course to obtain a facilitator certificate for Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), an evidence-based 8-week program that aims to treat depression and anxiety through imparting mindfulness skills. Because of the growing evidence base on the benefits of mindfulness for stress and mental health, the facilitator program attracts many medical professionals.
One of the course participants, a psychiatrist, didn’t like me. I noticed her frowning in my direction every time I spoke. She deliberately avoided and ignored me, talking to everyone else in the course but me.
As the only naturopathic doctor in the group, the other participants showed some curiosity towards my field. When I answered their questions, the psychiatrist’s face seemed to twist into a subtle expression of disgust and disapproval.
She thought I was a quack, a hack; I didn’t have enough training. She assumed I wasn’t qualified enough to provide care to those who suffer from mental health concerns. I could feel her judging energy from across the room every time I lifted my hand to answer a question, or make a comment. Her deploring gaze scrutinized my every move.
I was a naturopathic doctor and she, a psychiatrist. We had emerged from different worlds, philosophies, and backgrounds—we were from incompatible ends of the mental health professional spectrum. Of course she didn’t approve of me: it was only to be expected.
We were spending all day meditating, and this is the story my mind had decided to write.
At the end of day 3 of the course, with days of evidence selectively compiled to support my story about this disapproving psychiatrist’s opinion of me, I left class to head for the bus stop. Waiting for the same bus was no one other than my nemesis.
Great, I thought. I smiled at her, stiffly.
She smiled at me.
“Talia, right?” She asked.
I nodded: yes, Talia.
“You’re the naturopath, right?” She inquired, brows kneaded together in a frown.
I nodded again, bracing myself. Are we really going to do this here?
But then, time-space cracked and split open, revealing an alternate universe to the one in my own head. Her face melted into a warm grin, “Oh, I love naturopaths!” She exclaimed warmly.
She went on to describe her wonderful encounters with the members of my profession who had attended to the various personal health concerns she’d faced.
“I’m so interested in holistic health for managing mental health concerns,” She said, before leaning in a bit, conspiratorially, and adding in hushed tones, “You know, psychiatry doesn’t work.”
I stood there, dumbfounded.
Her particular opinions about psychiatry aside: not only was the entire story I’d written and held onto for the past few days wrong, it was way wrong. I had fabricated an entire story in my head, corroborated by what I had been convinced was real evidence. The realization of how avidly I’d bought into this story, as if it were simple fact, was earth-shattering.
My story, had just been that: a story, conjured up by thoughts. These thoughts bore no relationship to reality at all, no matter how convincingly they had presented themselves.
It rare to have the opportunity to experience our mental constructs and biases topple so dramatically. The mind has a tendency to rationalize away any evidence contrary to our beliefs—”Well, I only passed because I got lucky”, or “The test was easy”, or “She said she liked my hair—liar”.
Very few of us entertain the idea that our thoughts and emotions don’t represent our ultimate reality.
According to Mindfulness Theory it helps to think of our minds as movie screens and our thoughts, emotions, and body sensations as contents of the movie. We can watch the action, identify with the characters, and follow the plot with invested interest. The movie can inspire thoughts and emotions within us, both positive and negative. The movie can grip us; we might lose ourselves in the drama, forgetting that we are mere witnesses to it.
It can help to remember that we are not the movie. Sometimes it’s helpful to remember that we’re not even acting in the movie.
No matter how deeply the film may move us, we can always take the stance of movie-going witness. We can take various perspectives in relation to the drama on screen. We can immerse ourselves in the drama, losing our sense of self completely. We can remember that we are audience members, enjoying a film. We can ignore the movie altogether and laugh to a friend sitting beside us. We can be aware of the contents of the movie theatre, the people sitting around and behind us, or the sticky floor under our feet. We can even leave the theatre, which we will certainly do once the credits roll—it’s just a movie after all, a distraction from the reality of our lives.
In the way that we approach the contents on a movie screen, we can take various stances towards the contents of our minds.
Meta-awareness is the act of remembering that we are movie watchers—the act of becoming aware of awareness itself. When we practice meta-awareness, we take a non-judgmental view of our thoughts and emotions, watching them arise in our bodies and minds like the drama in a movie arises onscreen.
We can easily identify with the tens of thousands of thoughts that appear on the movie screens of our lives. We may be convinced that we’re unloveable, that we’re failures, or that life is hopeless, simply because these particular thoughts have appeared in our mind’s screen. We can also identify with positive thoughts, such as the idea that we’re excellent swimmers, or good fathers.
Our thoughts may reflect reality—we may have the thought that if we step into a pool of water our feel will get wet—but simply having a thought does not create reality itself.
While taking the bus that day, I realized that I had unwittingly cast my psychiatric colleague as the guest-star of People Who Are Judging Me, an episode in Unloveable: The Series, which is a piece of entertaining fiction that my mind has written, directed, produced, and cast me as the lead in. I often forget that I’m simply an audience member watching the movie of my mind’s creation—this movie is not necessarily the truth about my life.
Research has identified a network in the brain called the Default Mode Network (DMN), that connects the lower brain areas, like the amygdala and hippocampus, with higher brain centres in the prefrontal cortex. The DMN is active when our minds are wandering and is particularly active when those with depression are ruminating and engaging in narrative self-referencing: or attributing one’s self as the cause of (negative) events in one’s life—for example, interpreting an expression on someone’s face to be a look of disgust and assuming it’s because they disapprove of your profession.
Meditation, particularly practicing meta-awareness, can produce shifts in the DMN that decrease rumination. Practicing meta-awareness allows us to rescue our identities from the tyranny of thought. We watch and detach from thought, watching them rise and fall in the mind without clinging to them. By becoming aware of our thoughts and emotions and taking a curious attitude towards them, we can break the cycle of rumination, thereby supporting our mental health. Observing thoughts, rather than becoming lost in their drama, allows us to feel and behave independently of them.
For example, simply having the thought, “I’ll always be alone,” doesn’t have to produce a negative emotion, if I recognize it as just a thought.
We might reframe the thought “She hates me” to be: “I just had a thought that this person hates me. It’s just a thought that I have no way of knowing for certain is true. I will smile warmly at her anyways. I might be completely wrong.”
Or, we can do nothing, waiting until the thought “She hates me” passes through the screen of our minds.
We can turn off this particular movie, and put on a new one. After all, we can’t stop the flow of thoughts: there will always be others to take their place.
Lesson learned: I am not my thoughts.
And: some psychiatrists are way more hippy than I am.
Estrogen levels in the brain and body affect our brain’s levels of dopamine and norepinephrine, two neurotransmitters that are implicated in mood disorders like depression, psychosis and anxiety.
Our brain has several built-in recycling processes to keep us level-headed. When neurotransmitters (brain chemicals that have mood-regulating effects) are finished with their tasks, enzymes recycle them, breaking them down into their chemical parts to be reused again at a later date. This process controls the level of chemical nervous system stimulation in our brains and keeps our moods regulated.
You’re at home, late a night, working on an important assignment, driven by the excitement of the topic at hand. Your brain is flooded with dopamine, a brain chemical that is connected to positive mood and motivation, pleasure and reward; dopamine pathways are activated when we’re engaged in a task that is pleasurable and rewarding, when our lives are flooded with meaning and we’re working towards a goal. Dopamine, however can also be connected to psychosis, conditions like schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, and also be linked to impulsive behaviour, aggression and irritability, when over-expressed.
Typing happily, you near the end of your assignment. Suddenly, your computer screen goes dark. Your heart begins to race, your skin prickles and you’re overtaken by anxiety, panic and fear. Your body is releasing norepinephrine, a chemical connected to stress, anxiety and the “Fight or Flight” response, but that also allows us to feel alert and energized. Your heart pounds as your reboot your computer. You are hyperaware of the sounds and smells around you. Your skin prickles and your breathing is loud and rapid.
You exhale with relief as your computer screen lights up again, revealing that your assignment is unharmed. Stress drains out of your body, and your norepinephrine levels fall. You begin to tire; it’s time for bed. You add some finishing touches to your work, hit “save” and turn in for the night. The stress and motivation you felt only hours before dwindle, as the neurotransmitters responsible for these responses are swept out of your synaptic clefts and recycled.
When our brains have had enough stimulation of dopamine (mood, reward, pleasure, but also aggression, irritability, impulsivity and psychosis) and norepinephrine (stress and anxiety, “Fight or Flight”, but also alertness and energy), both get recycled through COMT, which pulls them out of circulation, breaks them down into their chemical parts, and reassembles them for later use.
We all have variability in how fast our COMT enzyme works, based on the expression of the COMT genes in our DNA. Some of us have slower COMT genes, meaning that our brain levels of dopamine and norepinephrine tend to be higher than other people’s, as our ability to clean up and recycle these hormones is slowed. This might result in an individual (depending on other genetic and lifestyle factors) who is at a higher risk of mental health conditions like psychosis or bipolar disorder, or someone who is more irritable, prone to aggression, or stress intolerant.
Others have more COMT gene expression, resulting in a faster enzyme that clears dopamine and norepinephrine more quickly, resulting in lower brain levels of these neurotransmitters. If other factors are present, these individuals may be more at risk for mental health conditions such as depression, low mood, lack of motivation, or susceptible to addictions.
Beyond genetics, there are several environmental and biological factors that may affect the speed of the COMT enzyme. One of these factors is estrogen. Estrogen slows the COMT enzyme down by as much as 30%. This means that when estrogen levels are high (seen in many women around ovulation or premenstrually, or in women with generally high estrogen levels, termed “Estrogen Dominance”, COMT performs more slowly and dopamine and norepinephrine levels remain elevated.
Depending on the extent of the problem, women with high estrogen often experience anxiety and irritability and a low tolerance for stress. On the more severe end of the spectrum, some women experience conditions such as PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoria Disorder) or PMS-induced psychosis, resulting from abnormally high brain levels of dopamine and norepinephrine due to high estrogen. These conditions probably result from a combination of high estrogen, slowed COMT and other genetic and lifestyle factors. Xenoestrogens from environmental toxins, or birth control pills may also slow COMT and further exacerbate some of the symptoms of estrogen dominance.
Conversely, women with lowered levels of estrogen, such as those with amenorrhea (missed menstrual cycles) from various causes—PCOS is one, so is the birth control pill, especially progestin-only pills, or hormonal IUDs—or women who are peri-menopausal or menopausal, will have a faster COMT enzyme. This means that dopamine and norepinephrine will be cleared from the brain more quickly. Low levels of these neurotransmitters may result in depression: low mood, low energy and lack of motivation. On the extreme end, low levels of dopamine in the brain may result in conditions like Parkinson’s. Currently, research is being done on estrogen-replacement therapy as a treatment for Parkinson’s because of its ability to increase brain dopamine levels through slowing COMT.
When it comes to birth control pills, which are combination of synthetic estrogen and synthetic progesterone (“progestins”), or just straight progestin, either in pill-form or in a hormonal IUD, effects can be unpredictable. There is evidence that oral contraceptive use, especially progestin-only contraception, can exacerbate anxiety and depression, especially in teens. The pill acts by suppressing ovulation and suppressing natural hormone production, which may result in low levels of naturally-occurring progesterone and estrogen, which can slow COMT. However, the synthetic estrogens from the pill may interact with COMT, speeding it up in some women. Therefore the effects of specific forms of birth control on individual women is hard to predict; if functional medicine and genetic research tells us anything, it’s that there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to striking the right hormonal balance.
Estrogen also has effects on another enzyme, called MAO-A, that recycles serotonin, the “Happy Hormone”, often implicated in depression and anxiety. Like COMT, estrogen slows down MAO, reducing the speed at which the body breaks down serotonin, resulting in higher brain serotonin levels. Drops in estrogen around and before a woman’s period, or low estrogen levels, may result in feelings of depression. Many women report feeling depressed and craving carbs and sugar around their periods. This is often related to a drop in serotonin as estrogen levels fall right before menses. Drops in serotonin levels due to drops in estrogen levels after childbirth may explain postpartum depression, according to some researchers.
The link between estrogen and its effects on COMT and MAO hint at the complexities of the body and brain’s hormonal milieu and its implications for hormonal regulation and mental health. Mental wellness is a complex state involving a variety of factors: hormones, enzymes and neurochemical pathways that are affected by our environment, our genetics and our hormonal predispositions. This is why I believe in taking a functional approach to mental health, seeing our mental health symptoms for what they are: symptoms, and making efforts to uncover underlying causes rooted in lifestyle, genetics and our environment. I believe the way to address symptoms is to trace them back to their source.
For many women, treating depression, anxiety and stress-intolerance may involve balancing estrogen levels and healing the menstrual cycle. For others it may involve supporting genetic susceptibilities with lifestyle changes, finding a birth control method that balances (or coming off entirely), and reducing exposure to xenoestrogens, supporting estrogen detoxification pathways, and addressing women’s health conditions such as irregular menses, and conditions like PMS, fibroids, endometriosis and PCOS.
I talk about 8 functional foods that can help calm inflammation, boost neurotransmitter synthesis and restore common nutrient deficiencies that might contribute to low mood and mental health conditions.
My name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani. I’m a naturopathic doctor with a focus in mental health and emotional wellness as well as hormonal health and hormone balancing, and today I’m going to deliver a short video about some foods that you can add to your diet to help your mental health.
These are all medicinal foods that act like prescriptions, like anti-depressants, that you can just add to your diet. So, a lot of these foods are recommended based on the idea that depression is an inflammatory condition in the brain. There’s more and more research that shows that there’s low levels of inflammation in people who have depression and anxiety and other mental health conditions like bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, ADD, ADHD and even sub-diagnostic symptoms, such as brain fog and cognitive disruptions. So all of these are a result of some kind of inflammation in the brain. And so a lot of these foods are working to heal depression and anxiety with their ant-inflammatory properties.
And so the first thing that’s recommended to eat are lots of anti-inflammatory fats. These are omega 3 fatty acids such as fish oil. So you can either increase the amount of fish oil by having fatty fish three times a week. You can remember what a fatty fish is by the acronym SMASH. And SMASH stands for sardines, mackerel, anchovy, salmon and herring, and also trout, so SMASHT. And these kinds of fish are rich in the omega 3’s EPA and DHA. Our body can make EPA, but some of us have impaired ability to make it. And so supplementing is necessary for a lot of these people. If you’re looking for a fish oil, make sure you look for one that has a higher amount of EPA compared to DHA. This is very important, because studies on depression are very favourable for fish oil supplementation, but the ratio of EPA to DHA has to be at least 3:1 or higher, and the higher the ratio, the higher the amount of EPA relative to DHA, the better the anti-depressant effects, and the mood-regulating effects. So, fish oil actually showed positive outcomes treating bipolar disorder and schizophrenia, so there’s a mood-stabilizing effect as well. And we think because our brain is made up largely of DHA and EPA, but also the anti-inflammatory effects are very helpful for mood and emotional balancing and mood balancing.
Coconut oil is also another great oil you can add to your diet. Coconut oil is a saturated fat, but it’s rich in something called Medium Chain Triglycerides. So these are saturated fats that the body uses readily for energy. So they don’t go through the normal process of digestion that other fats have to go through. They’re absorbed in our lymphatic system. So we get those fats, the energy from those fats, right away.
Coconut oil is very anti-bacterial and anti-fungal, so it can help regulate bacterial balance in our gut and it can give you a boost of energy. There’s also some evidence that being in ketosis, so this means relying on fats for energy, as opposed to carbohydrates, and, to an extent, proteins. Being in ketosis, so burning fat for fuel: body fat or dietary fat, has a mood-stabilizing effect. And so you might read about intermittent fasting, Ketogenic diet. I wouldn’t recommend doing that without working with a functional medicine practitioner, nutritionist or a naturopath, because there are some negative downsides to doing those kinds of diets prolonged, without supervision, but there is some growing evidence for that. But one thing you can do is add coconut oil to a morning smoothie, or eat a couple of tablespoons in the morning, even looking at some Bulletproof coffee recipes, that can also help with keeping your mood steady or your energy high in the morning.
Staying on the topic of fats and nuts, something that is really great for mental health are Brazil nuts. And Brazil nuts are high in a nutrient called selenium, which our body needs to create an anti-oxidant, the main anti-oxidant in our body, glutathione. You may have heard me talk about n-acetyl cysteine, NAC, which is an amino acid that I often recommend for people with bipolar disorder, for schizophrenia and, to an extent, depression and anxiety, and especially personality disorders, like borderline personality. There can be a very strong mood-stabilizing effect with NAC. And that’s probably because—we’re not exactly sure why that is—but it’s probably because NAC is the precursor to what our body uses to make glutathione, but we can’t make glutathione without selenium. So two brazil nuts a day, and they’re really delicious and fun to eat, they’re big nuts—two brazil nuts a day gives you the 200 mcg of selenium that’s the therapeutic dose. It’s also helpful for thyroid health.
Another thing I tend to recommend and am recommending a lot more in my practice is collagen, specifically gelatin, but for the more health-food minded people, going with a collagen hydrosylate supplement from grass-fed meat is something that I often recommend. But, for most people and myself, I just throw some gelatin that you can buy at Bulk Barn, into a shake or into a seed bowl, or into something that I’m eating like oatmeal, or I’ll make jello out of it.
So, gelatin is really rich in collagen, so it’s made from the hooves of animals, and collagen has a gut-stabilizing effect, so it can help heal the gut. A lot of us suffer from something called “leaky gut” in which inflammation in the gut makes its way to the rest of our body and can affect our brain. Leaky gut can often result in “leaky brain”, resulting in inflammation in the brain and then mental health symptoms. So, collagen helps to repair the gut barrier and the blood-brain barrier. It’s also very anti-inflammatory because it’s high in an amino acid called glycine, which is a calming neurotransmitter as well as an amino acid. It can also help balance the immune system. So anyone that has a low level of autoimmunity, or maybe your immune system is on the sluggish side and you’re getting colds and flus and infections more readily than others, collagen is a great supplement for that. Because our main sources of protein: meat, legumes, whole grains, nuts and seeds, don’t contain a lot of glycine. We’re pretty glycine deficient in our society because we’re not eating that much gelatin, we’re not getting as much bone broth. And so you can get collagen from from making bone broth, from stewing bones and accessing that bone marrow, or you can get it from something like gelatin, which is from hooves, from the collagen-rich membranes, the cartilages, of animals. There’s also fish collagen for more pescatarian-oriented people.
Collagen is also really great for anti-aging, for treating hair loss, for skin and for cellulite. So, all aesthetic things that might bring someone in to my practice, but also really great for mood balancing. A good source of protein as well.
You can either just throw it into a shake, mix it into some water or make your own jello. And I make jello by boiling some fruit, about a cup of blueberries in water. I boil it until the blueberry juice is extracted, then I add a couple tablespoons of gelatin and then I put it in the fridge until it’s hard. And you have a natural jello you can serve to your kids. It’s pretty good.
Another great food to help balance your mood and mental health is turmeric. Turmeric, or curcumin, as it’s scientifically called, is a spice that is used mostly in India. It’s a yellow spice, it stains things yellow: your clothes, your counter, your intestines. It has very very strong anti-inflammatory benefits. It also helps the liver detoxify, it’s been shown to have anti-cancer properties, it’s a really powerful, nutrient-rich plant, root. So studies have shown that two grams per day of turmeric actually outperformed Prozac for treating depression and probably this is due to its anti-inflammatory properties in really lowering inflammation in the brain, which we know is really one of the underlying roots of depression. The way that we get to that inflammation is different in every person with depression, but there is this kind of common thread of inflammation that’s going on in every case of mental health condition, mental illness. So, adding turmeric to foods, or supplementing with turmeric, is a great way to combat that inflammation and keep moods balanced.
Some other foods you might want to add to your diet are foods that are rich in zinc. So, these are mainly things like pumpkin seeds. You’ve got to get around two cups, though, of pumpkin seeds, to get a decent therapeutic dose of zinc, or oysters. Or you can supplement with zinc. Zinc, again, is anti-inflammatory, it can help heal the gut. We need it to make neurotransmitters and enzymes that our brain needs to rebalance mood. And there’re also some studies that zinc increases something called BDNF. BDNF is a chemical in the brain that help with neurogenesis, this is the creation of new neurons in an area of the brain called the hippocampus. So you may have heard “you can’t teach and old dog new tricks” or that our neurons never regenerate once we reach a certain age, and this is not true because new research has shown that we do have neurogenesis, something called neurogenesis, that increases and changes and grows new neurons even as we age. And so anyone suffering from brain fog or really high amounts of cognitive stress, or mental illness, maybe benefit from zinc as that increases the neurogenic abilities of the brain. It’s also very anti-inflammatory and it can help with leaky gut and leaky brain situations. Vegetarians, unfortunately, are often deficient in zinc just because we get most of it from animal products and animal sources, but really upping your pumpkin seed intake might get you to a therapeutic level of zinc or you can supplement as well.
Another really great addition to your diet to help balance mood and to improve your mental and cognitive health are fermented foods. So, these include things like kefir, kombucha, kim chee, saurkraut, and yogurt, if you do dairy. These things, they contain probiotics, and studies show that it may be better to supplement or to add fermented foods to your diet rather than supplementing with a probiotic, and this is obviously an individualized recommendation that would have to be made by a doctor, but adding fermented foods to your diet, especially if you make them at home and ferment them at home, like you make your own kombucha or your own kefir, that can actually boost the probiotic capacity of your gut. Probiotics actually make neurotransmitters, they make things like serotonin, and the calming neurotransmitter GABA and they can help us digest our food, like gluten, as well as combat inflammation and regulate our entire immune system. It’s also important to feed those probiotics with something called resistant starch that you can find in carbohydrates that have been cooled to room temperature after they’ve been cooked, so, for example brown rice that’s after it’s been cooked as been cooled to room temperature, potato starch, green bananas, black beans, and jerusalem artichokes. These are all starches that bacteria feed on and that keeps them populated in the gut. Coconut oil tends to kill more pathogenic bacteria and therefore can promote a healthy bacterial balance.
And lastly, I’m going to talk about leafy greens. So, adding a cup of spinach, or two cups of spinach or chard to your diet will give you the amount of magnesium you need. Magnesium has a calming effect on the body. We need it to make the neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine and melatonin, to help with sleep. Magnesium also can help balance mood and help us with stress. A lot of us suffer from stress. It can also make our brain more resilient to stress, as stress is one of the major causes of neuro-inflammation in people with mental illness and this can be stress from a significant trauma, it can be psychosocial stress, interpersonal stress, the stress of being out of work, even long-term chronic stress or burnout from school and work and things like that. So, two cups of spinach gives you your daily magnesium serving. You can also get it from chocolate but you need to eat quite a bit of chocolate.
So, in boosting your mental health, or in promoting mental and emotional wellness, you can add all of these foods to your diet and balance your inflammation, feel good and nourish yourself.
I talk about 5 essential tools for caring for your mental and emotional health. These are powerful self-care practices that can help balance your mind and emotions.
Hello, everybody, my name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani. I am a naturopathic doctor with a focus in mental health and hormonal health.
Despite the increasing amount of research into mental health conditions and psychiatric conditions, and the increase in interventions and early recognition and pharmaceutical therapies that come with mental health diagnoses, we’re actually seeing more debility in mental health outcomes: more debility, more morbidity. So we’re seeing worsening of outcomes even though we’re applying more interventions.
So, how could this be? You expect that the better the drugs that we’re developing, the less disease we should encounter, if those drugs are actually working to counteract the disease process. We’re not seeing that in the realm of mental health, especially when it comes to the common conditions such as depression and anxiety.
And when it comes to disease in the west, we’re not really winning the war against disease. So, things like cardiovascular disease, cancer, hormone imbalances such as diabetes, hypothyroidism, mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety, ADD and ADHD, infertility, neurological disease such as MS and Parkinson’s, autoimmune disease, such as, again, MS and things like Hashimoto’s Thryoiditis and myasthenia gravis, and immunodeficiencies such as HIV. All of these diseases are on the rise, all of these chronic, lifelong diseases. And so, despite these advances in research and drug development, we’re not seeing an improvement in our ability to manage these diseases or prevent them.
And there is obviously not one simple solution to this problem, but one thing I want to point our attention to is this increase in stress and this connection to stress and the diseases that I mentioned. Obviously it’s not just one cause, that would simplify the entire system to an almost ludicrous degree, but there is an estimation that 75-90% of hospital visits are either directly or indirectly related to stress.
And some of the symptoms of stress, so chronic stress or even acute stress, are an increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, elevated blood sugar, decreased memory and cognition, disrupted levels of serotonin, leading to depression and anxiety, disrupted levels of the other hormones such as dopamine and norepinephrine, and addiction to stress, so a chance in the opioid receptors and the brain structure, altered hormone synthesis, increased inflammation, altered gut flora, etc., etc., and a change in the immune system. So, basically, every system of the body is affected by stress. And being in a prolonged, acute state of stress is lethal to the body.
So, we can look at the rise of cardiovascular disease and diabetes and the fact that stress increases our heart rate and increases our blood pressure and increases our blood sugar. And we can make some of those connections between the symptoms of stress and the diseases that are increasing in our society.
When it comes to mental health, we see how our neurotransmitters and our brain structure and our gut and our immune systems are affected by chronic stress and we can infer that some mental health conditions are either caused by or aggravated by this chronic stress situation. And, so, by not addressing stress and by not looking into stress and finding healthy ways to manage it, we’re doing ourselves a disservice in the management of these diseases and the prevention of them,
So, there’s a few theories that connect—there’s that Monoamine Hypothesis when it comes to mental health, that people with depression and anxiety have this inherent brain imbalance. So they don’t make enough serotonin, or their brains for some reason aren’t responding to serotonin. Again, it’s a very reductionistic model because it reduces all of the experience of depression and anxiety and conditions such as ADD and ADHD and bipolar down to one single neurotransmitter and it oversimplifies the entire system and the entire constellation of symptoms that people can experience and the life situations surrounding these conditions and the fact that they’re comorbid with things like stress and poverty and childhood trauma and those kinds of things.
But there’s some other theories that we can look at, and some other kind of pieces of the puzzle that we can add to create a more inclusive narrative. So there’s a theory called the Mind-Body Theory and this kind of arises as a counteraction, or a counter-philosophy to what Descartes discovered or decided that he discovered, which was that the mind and body are separate entities—this dualistic hypothesis. We know absolutely that that’s not true but our mind and body are completely connected and that our mind probably doesn’t reside only in our brain because our nervous system extends throughout the entire body and our minds are also inter-relational, so they’re a product our environments and our relationships with other people as well.
We know that the gut is the second brain, for the amount of neurons that it inhabits and the neurotransmitters that influence its function. Our gut health affects our mood depending on how healthy it is. And we call this connection, another word for it, a more scientific word, is “Psychoneuroimmunology”. This is the connection between the immune system, the nervous system, and our psychology, our mood: our thoughts and emotions. So, we know that everything in the body is interconnected and you can’t prescribe an antibiotic and not expect that there’ll be sequelae or consequences, or side effects that affect a different body system. And we see that all the time now, but we have to understand how tugging on one thread in this interconnected web is going to affect another piece of it further down the line.
There’s also this Energetic Model of mental health, and that’s that the emotions have their own energy. There’s this theory that the emotions can manifest as physical symptoms and we see this in the work of Gabor Mate, who writes extensively about stress and addictions and mental health, in his book “The Body Says No”. He talks about how the health of our thoughts and emotions impact our physical stress. And so it’s not just that our thoughts and emotions can impact our mental health, but also our physical health and might set the stage for us to get conditions like cancer, or autoimmune disease, and all of the other diseases that I mentioned.
So, when it comes to stress and our mental health and emotional wellbeing, we need to take a proactive approach. Just like we do with getting vaccinations, and preventing colds and flus, and getting proper nutrition, and exercise and all of that, we need to be strategic about how we manage our stress.
The World Health Organization defines mental health as “A state of well-being in which every individual realizes his or her own potential, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to her or his community.” So, notice that this definition isn’t simply the absence of disease and it’s not necessarily a normalizing—being “happy” or not having a diagnosis. This definition is about realizing one’s potential and experiencing emotional “wellness”, for lack of a better word. So, an ability to cope with life’s stressors and to live a life of meaning and purpose.
So I want to talk about 5 tools that are really important for establishing a self-care and emotional wellness routine, for improving mental health. These strategies may not be sufficient enough for more serious psychiatric conditions, but I believe that they form the foundation of proper lifestyle strategies to help with increasing our emotional wellness and our ability to cope with life’s stressors.
So the first one I want to talk about is something called “Self-Care”, which is becoming kind of a buzzword in high-stress communities such as universities, and even some offices and corporations. So, one of the first things I want to talk about is the power of saying “No”. Sometimes saying No, especially for more agreeable individuals, and a lot of the time for women, saying no is a difficult thing for us to do.
When I give this presentation to a group I always ask them, “Why is it hard for you to say no? What would happen if you didn’t say no? Let’s say a friend invites you out and you’re just not feeling it, or you’re invited to a baby shower and it’s just more than you can handle and you wish you could say no, but you don’t.” And, one thing that everybody says is that they’d feel guilty, if they said no. This is sort of universal. And so I ask them, “What would happen if you didn’t say no? What would happen if you went along with it, even if you just didn’t have the energy to devote to this commitment?” And people say that they’d feel resentment. And so when it comes to deciding what things to take on and what things to discriminate against in terms of the tasks that we take on, the commitments that we make, we’re kind of stuck between this dichotomy between feeling guilt and resentment spectrum. One of my mentors, Gabor Mate, in his book “The Body Says No”, talks about when faced with this choice between guilt and resentment, especially when we’re more prone to guilt-avoidance by saying yes more often than maybe we should, he said “choose guilty every time”, because the feeling of guilt, and obviously this isn’t a hard or fast rule, but the feeling of guilt is more indicative that you’re taking care of yourself.
His theory as well is that resentment tends to build up in the body and contributes to the cause of more disease such as cancer and this cancer personality that he writes about is the woman that will say yes to things and is scared to say no out of guilt. So, resentment is far more damaging for the body and therefore, when trying to avoid guilt, maybe move towards guilt, especially when you know that you might be taking on more than you should. And also pay attention to the idea that when we say yes to things we’re saying no to other things. So, we’re always saying “no” and “yes”. We only have 24 hours in the day and so, by saying yes to that baby shower that you’d rather not go to, what are you saying no to? Are you saying no to doing a yoga class for you, or getting extra sleep, or saving your money for a family vacation? So, paying attention to those commitments that we make. There’s a great article online called “The Law of F- Yes! Or No.” And this law is, if you’re faced with a decision and you’re not feeling like this, “F- Yes!”, then say no and save that time and save those commitments for something else that you’re more enthusiastic about.
When it comes to self-care, there’s another great article that talks about the BACE method, so that’s BACE. And this stands for these 4 pillars of self-care. And the first one of body-care. So that’s making sure you have a healthy diet, that you’re supporting yourself nutritionally, that you’re getting movement in, that you’re sleeping enough. A is acceptance, just allowing the emotions, and that self-care, that self-love to come through. C is connection, so establishing those interpersonal relationships and prioritizing them, especially relationships that feel nurturing, where you can be your authentic self. And E is enjoyment, finding activities that are fun and cause a sense of enthusiasm and enjoyment in your life. And this is something that’s often a problem for a lot of adults with lots of responsibilities that, when I ask them to rate on a scale of 1 to 10 how much fun they have, or how satisfied they are with the amount of fun in their life, they often rate it pretty low.
A lecture that I attended, there was a woman who was talking about self-love and improving self-worth and recommends asking oneself this: “what would someone who loves themselves do? Or say?” and that can be pretty powerful for just examining how our internal dialogue is manifesting and how we’re talking to ourselves and treating ourselves. Would someone who loves themselves eat that? Or say that? Or do that activity or say yes to that commitment? And, you know, just sitting with that question can be really helpful for changing some behaviours, or adding perspective to our daily lives.
There’s also this, lastly in the realm of self-care, there’s this idea of Wu Wei, which is a Taoist idea, which is translated roughly into the art of “effortless action”. In our society we’re kind of educated to pair action with effort. So, we don’t feel like we deserve success unless our success was the result of a massive amount of effort that we’ve put in, and stress. And, according to wu wei, this idea that action is objective, we can measure it, but effort is subjective. So, you can see if you’re performing an action, but the perception of effort behind it is this kind of subjective and thought-based experience. So, we can do the laundry or DO the laundry. We can do laundry from a place of self-love and self-care, like “I want to care for my clothes, and to have nice clothes to wear tomorrow and I’m going to do this for myself and I’m going to be mindful as I do it”. And I’m going to do this out of necessity, but also out of a natural drive that’s coming from this place within. Or I can have laundry on my to-do list that’s causing me stress. So, sometimes even wu wei is about doing less and not feeling guilty for that.
The second tool for emotional wellness is journalling and writing. This is one of my favourites. So, journalling allows us to keep a record, to get creative, and to engage in self-expression. And when we write we engage both sides of our brains: the motor centres, the language centres, the centres that are involved in language perception and in language generation, also our visual centres. So, a lot of the brain is lit up in the act of writing and that can help integrate some of our deeper thought processes.
Writing down things leads to clarity and focus. We’re forced to deepen our thought processes and remove ourselves from some of the cognitive loops we might be engaged in. We can complete our thoughts and reach their inevitable, often ridiculous conclusions and this kind of comes from some core beliefs, or, we call them “automatic thoughts.” Like, “I’m a failure” or “I’m worthless”. Those kind of things that our brain generates based on past experiences that may not be relevant anymore to who we are now. Through writing we’re forced to look inside of ourselves, to causes and explanations for how we feel. We’re also able to express ourselves and rid the body of pent up emotions, such as anger and aggression and sadness, shame.
I often recommend that people write a letter. Especially if there’s someone in the past that’s done damage to them, or hurt them. Someone that they miss, sometimes remembering somebody through a letter: sometimes people wish that they could communicate with someone who’s passed away or is no longer in their life anymore and, through this letter-writing, you’re able to.
I also have people write letters to themselves from the perspective of their personality at age 80, and this can sometimes provide perspective for patients who are depressed and young, because it gives them an idea; it increases the perspective of their lives. And sometimes I have people personify and anthropomorphize their problems or addictions and write letters to that or write letters from that and through that process can learn a lot about the relationship between themselves and alcoholism, for example.
There’s another great activity I like called the “God Jar”, for people that have constant worries or wake themselves up at night and process things or who are anxious about the future—The God Jar or the Wish Jar. And so, you get a mason jar and little pieces of paper and you write things that you’re worried about or things that you’re anxious about or thinking about and you scrunch them up and throw them into this jar and, in essence, symbolically, you’re giving those problems to “God”, or to the universe or you’re just simply filing them away for later use. And this is sort of a subconscious, or conscious, dumping of your problems, especially if you don’t have immediate control over them. I mean, in the middle of the night you’re not going to be able to finish your taxes when you’re supposed to be sleeping, or solve a problem at work. And that can often worsen our problems, when we’re not getting enough sleep. Then I sometimes have people open up that jar 6 months later and take a look at some of the things they’ve written and that can also generate feelings of accomplishment and achievement and perspective when you find out that those things that you were so worried about 6 months ago are no longer even relevant and you barely remember them. So, it’s pretty powerful.
Another great exercise is something called a Gratitude Journal. And there’s a Ted Talk about this that, for 21 days, and I like to tell people to do this for a full month, 28 days. If you write 3 things that you’re grateful for at the end of the day for 21 days, it actually changes your brain structure and helps you see things in a more positive light and focus on the blessings, rather than the things that you lack. Our brains have a negative bias. So, they’re wired to pay attention to the things that we’re missing out on and that we’re lacking and when we focus on and acknowledge the things that are going right for us, it can sort of change our perspective. And, throughout the day, as you’re doing this exercise, you’re going to be paying attention to things that you’re going to have to write down later, so you’re paying attention to the things that went well, that you want to include in your gratitude journal. And this can have profound effects.
There’s some studies about journalling. And there was a study that showed that patients with HIV or AIDS, who wrote about their life for 30 minutes had an increased CD4 T cell count—and that’s the cells in the body that are affected by the HIV virus. So, by simply writing about their lives, something profound, it wasn’t just a grocery list. But writing something profound about their lives, such as sharing their life story, actually increased their immune system’s ability to function in the face of the HIV virus.
And then, similarly, there was another study in patient with rheumatoid arthritis—this is an autoimmune condition—they had these patients write for 20 minutes a day, for 3 days, and they found that their symptoms went down and their immunoreactivity went down. So we’re seeing these two studies, and we’re not exactly sure of the causal effect, these studies are a little bit correlative and very difficult to control for, because patients who are in the study, subjects know if they’re writing in their journal or not. But these studies were controlled against people who were just kind of mindlessly writing about grocery lists. So, it was writing about more profound concepts and sort of outlining a significant life event, or life story, or significant events that were happening in the day that had an emotional charge to them.
So, we find that engaging in journalling, even 20 or 30 minutes a day, can actually modulate the immune system. So, if you have a immunodeficiency issue, like HIV, it can increase immunoreactivity, and if you have an autoimmune disease like rheumatoid arthritis, or asthma, if can lower that immunoreactivity and inflammation. So there’s this evidence that journalling and our thoughts and emotions are directly impacting our immune system and our immune system’s ability to function and balance itself.
The third tool for mental and emotional wellness is interpersonal support. And, being a naturopathic doctor who does a lot of counselling in my practice, I tend to favour psychotherapy and counselling as a form of social support for people that don’t feel that they can be authentic or have that deep connection with people in their lives.
There’s evidence that loneliness is the new epidemic, especially in our society and, as social animals, connecting with others is part of our biology, part of who we are. Through therapy, what I really like about it, is it can help us reframe the past and our personal identity. We can start to identify some automatic thoughts and core beliefs, which are deep-seated beliefs that may not serve us anymore in the present and may actually be contributing to feelings of low mood or behaviours that are unwanted. It can also allow us to rewrite our life story, so, looking back on the past and reframing certain events, from the perspective of someone maybe with more resources and power. For example, someone with a history of trauma may have an idea of powerlessness and being victimized and, in every single story of trauma that I’ve encountered, people have always responded in some way. Either psychologically, mentally, emotionally, if not in action, and sometimes just recognizing these responses changes our whole perception of the event and our identities in the present, our ability to act in the present. So, there is evidence that stress is related to our perception of things that happen, not actually what happened. So, for example, imagine somebody that’s just broken up with their girlfriend and they were very in love. And you can image what their mental and emotional state would be like. Maybe the next day they don’t feel like getting out of bed, there’s clothes all over the floor, they haven’t brushed their teeth, they’re feeling extremely sad, and crying. And nothing has changed biologically in this person, but the situation surrounding their life has changed. Then imagine that this person wakes up the next day and they’re in this state of low mood and depression. And they get a phone call. And it’s their girlfriend saying, “you know, I’d like to get back together, I made a mistake, I’m in love with you and I don’t want to be broken up anymore.” So you can imagine that this person’s mood is going to change rapidly as the situation changes. And so, there is a change in their circumstances, but not in their physical biology.
And sometimes, in past events, there’s the story that our minds create around what happened, and then there’s the actual events that happened. So you might call your partner and they don’t pick up the phone, and we start to create a story about why that is. Maybe it’s because they don’t love us anymore, they want to break up with us, that we’re worthless, that no one’s ever loved us, that we’ll never find love, that we’ll always be alone. But, in actuality, we don’t know those things and the only thing that’s happening is they’re just not picking up the phone and there’s thousands of explanations for that.
We perceive situations based on our personal histories, our physical conditions, our state of minds, etc., and things that we’ve learned in the past and also our core beliefs. So, we filter our experiences through our perceptions and our identities and personalities and so, by understanding more about these things, we can understand why we pick out certain events and draw conclusions from the connection between those events rather than others. There’s some people that, when they fail a test, they just think, “Oh, it was a hard test, or maybe I didn’t study hard enough.” And there’s others that think “I’m a failure, I’ll never pass anything, there’s no point in trying, I’m dropping out of school.” And so it’s not just the event but our perception of the event that change our thoughts, mood and behaviours.
Another great thing that therapy and social support can do, is help us identify our passions and purpose in life. So there’s a psychological that I really like to listen to called Jordan Peterson that talks about how the purpose of life is not necessarily well-being and happiness, because happiness is a state that can be derived chemically, through doing things like cocaine, or substance abuse, and happiness might just be a disposition that certain people embody better than others and that life is suffering. And this is present in Buddhist philosophy that no matter how we live, we’re going to encounter events that are devastating for us, and that are hard for us to deal with. And so, in those situations, we’re not going to feel happy, so what’s going to drive us? What’s going to push us forward? What’s going to keep us going in those times and so his theory or idea is that we should look for what makes it worth it: what adds meaning to our life. What is our potential in life? What is our purpose? What gives us that sense of meaning such that, when we encounter these situations of suffering and hopelessness that we’re able to continue on. So, having a direction for our lives, and having a sense of identity and purpose that gets us up in the morning and makes us move forward, even when we’re not particularly feeling happy that day.
Therapy and social support are also great for just self-acceptance. So, having other people mirror back to us who we are and how we’re being in the world.
The 4th tool for emotional wellness is mindfulness and meditation, so very very powerful tools. It’s arguably very difficult to be healthy in this day and age without some form of mindfulness meditation, or meditation practice to combat the increase in stress that we encounter in our society. So, mindfulness is—there’s many different techniques, but the main tenant is just taking the perspective of the compassionate, detached observer to our thoughts, emotions and physical sensations. So, when we split our mind or watch our thoughts, we can get a better sense of awareness of how emotions and thoughts arise in our body, pass through our bodies, and how we’re not them—that there’s this observer role that we can also take, that we can watch ourselves from.
Mindfulness allows us to stay in the present and reframe certain situations and just slow time down so that we’re not victims to the whims of our biology, that we’re able to understand it a little bit more. And there’s a great resource on the internet called “Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction” that’s a secular kind of meditation by a man in Massachusetts called Jon Kabat Zinn and you can download body scan meditations or take a course in MBSR in your town. I highly recommend them; they’re really great for developing mindfulness practice.
There’s also yoga, and qi gong and tai qi, and these kind of integrated, mindfulness-based and physical exercises that can help slow us down, bring us into the present and help us observe our minds and emotions a little bit better. And there’re amazing for managing stress. There’s good evidence building about them helping us deal with stress and manage our mental health conditions.
And the 5th tool for mental and emotional wellness is to look at that mind-body connection that I mentioned before. The mind-body theory sees our thoughts and emotions as energy that can impact our cellular biology, from that idea of psychoneuroimmunology. And there’s increasing evidence about this and how calming our thoughts down, doing some mindfulness meditation, can affect our heart-rate and can affect our blood pressure, and journalling can affect how our immune system responds.
There’s this idea that if our thoughts and emotions aren’t processed properly they can become trapped and stagnated in the body and contribute to disease. So, Gabor Mate mentioned that resentment can build up and lead to things like cancer. It’s one of his theories that he’s observed through working with patients.
We know that there’s this connection between physical manifestations of symptoms and physical conditions and certain emotional causes. In medicine we know this because every time a study is done, a randomized control trial, two groups need to be divided amongst the subjects. One is given a placebo, an inert pill. And this idea that someone who believes they’re taking medicine will notice a positive effect, is something that we just take for granted, but we build into every single study that we do, if it’s a good study. So, this idea that you can take a pill, believe it’s helping you, and actually physically notice a change in your body is really remarkable. And this just proves that there’s this connection between the mind and body, that we can further explore and exploit.
So, there’s things like herbal remedies that help our body increase our cells’ resilience to stress and help manage the stress hormone cortisol. And these are some herbs called adaptogens. So, they literally help us adapt to stress. And these are things like withania or ashwaghanda, rhodiola, ginseng, even nervine herbs like St. John’s Wort and skullcap can help balance our neurotransmitters and our stress hormones and lower inflammation in the body.
Doing self-care things like getting a massage, or getting acupuncture can help. And there’s a study that compares acupuncture to Prozac, so getting one acupuncture session a week for 6 weeks was actually comparable to Prozac for decreasing symptoms of depression and anxiety.
In my practice I always address diet and gut health and just make sure people are absorbing their nutrients, that they’re guts are producing the proper amounts of neurotransmitters, that there’s the proper bacterial balance, that there’s no inflammation being caused by a gut dysregulation. And we also want to remove those external stressors that can be contributing to an impaired digestive system. So, there is this saying that “we are what we eat,” but more accurately, we are what we absorb, because you can eat a lot of stuff, but, depending on how you’re digestion is functioning, we might not be absorbing all of it and incorporating it into our body, into our cells.
So, inflammation in the gut, caused by a bacterial imbalance, or food sensitivities can impact our health and we have some evidence that depression and anxiety can be caused by some latent levels of inflammation in the brain. And we know that there is an impact on gut health and increasing levels of inflammation and also stress. And really lowering that stress response, healing the gut, can have huge impacts on our mood. Establishing routine, and sleep are major pillars. So, I don’t think I’ve ever encountered a patient who felt mentally healthy when they had disrupted sleep. A lot of the time having a ritual around sleep and getting into a routine and waking up at the same time every day, really working on getting deep sleep—so avoiding electronic use before bedtime, trying to get as many hours before 12 am of sleep as possible, so preferably having a 10pm bedtime or winding down around 10 pm. Doing things like teas, or hot baths, or reading a book before bed or doing some yoga or stretches or meditation before bed to teach the body that it’s time to start relaxing is really important and has huge impacts on health, on our mood, on our emotional wellness, our ability to cope with stress, our ability to heal from stress, and our ability to balance inflammation and the immune system.
There’s evidence that exercise—I mean exercise is arguably the first-line therapy for someone with depression, especially someone under the age of 24. Instead of reaching for pharmaceutical interventions, such as selective-serotonin reuptake inhibitors, more psychiatrists are recommending exercise to young patients, which is wonderful. I’m so happy about that! And, so 30 minutes of a moderate to intense form of exercise such as weight training, or running or moving your body, can help release some of those trapped emotions, as well as boost those neurotransmitters and help our body increase its resilience against stress.
And then, finally, I just want to point out that making sure that we’re supporting our neurotransmitter synthesis through diet is really important. So, making sure that we’re getting enough magnesium, zinc and B vitamins, and proteins and amino acids, which are all helping us create the neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine that are going to impact our mood and mental health. So, we can journal, but we are physical beings, and we are a product of our biology. So, by supporting that biology through proper nutrition, we’re able to incorporate those nutrients and create the proper components of our body for proper mental and emotional wellness.
So, I also like to ask people this miracle question. So, this is the final thing that I’m just going to conclude on. The Miracle Question is from a modality called “Solution-Focused Therapy”. And this question is, “if you woke up tomorrow and all of your issues were completely gone, you woke up in an amazing 10 out of 10 state of energy and physical well-being and mental and emotional well-being, what would be possible for you? What would your day look like?” If you can stand in that place and sort of write down what you’re aiming at, what you’re aiming towards, it helps set the stage for taking the proper actions that preserve your mental and emotional wellness. And it also helps you stand in a new territory, one that’s not of disease or illness, but one of possibility.
And, finally, I was at this free meditation circle as we were talking about self-love, and we were talking about how difficult it can be to love oneself. Because, oftentimes we have these core beliefs that drive our psyches and oftentimes these core beliefs are negative. And so what was said was that it’s often hard to stand in a place of self-love when you’re intent on changing things and you’re not happy with where you are now. And so, he said, the person running the meditation said, “self-love is like a garden. So, you can nourish the soil and water the seeds, but you can’t actively force the garden to grow.” So what you can do is, you can take care of the things you love in yourself, all the things that you have in your right now, rather than trying to be somewhere that you’re not currently at. And this is kind of like when you have, for parents out there, if you have a child, you love your 4-year old child, and you don’t put expectations on them that you would a 25-year old. So, you’re loving your 4-year old at where they’re at, but also recognizing that this is somebody who is developing and so you’re loving their potential to develop, just as you’re loving their 4-year old incarnation, their 4-year old manifestation of their personalities. So you’re loving their potential to grow, just as you love the seeds that you’ve planted in your garden, but you’re also loving things where they’re at. And through that act of self-love and tending to the garden, or tending to your child, you’re encouraging that growth and development in the directions that you want.
My name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani. I’m a naturopathic doctor and I work in Bloor West Village, in Toronto.
I often recommend smoothies as an easy way to manage mental health symptoms, balance blood sugar, reduce inflammation and increase energy. I discuss the types of foods I put into my morning smoothie and their benefits on the body and mind.
Hello, everyone. My name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani, I’m a naturopathic doctor with a special focus in mental health and emotional wellness and today I’m going to talk to you about how to make one of my favourite breakfasts to recommend patients: the morning smoothie. I always recommend smoothies in the mornings because it’s a great way to take care of a lot of your daily recommended nutrients in terms of protein, vegetable, anti-oxidant-rich berries and a healthy source of fat.
I always recommend somewhere between 20-30 grams of protein in the morning for people with depression and anxiety as well as digestive issues, hormonal imbalances, anything like fatigue or chronic stress because when we wake up in the morning we’ve been fasting for at least 8 hours. Sometimes in healthier cases, it’s actually better to fast for 12 hours and so throughout the night our blood sugar hasn’t been stimulated, we haven’t been increasing our blood sugar throughout the night and so, when we start our morning with something like, in North America, like we usually start, with a piece of toast or some sugar-rich cereal, our blood sugar goes from the lowest point, since we’ve been fasting for so long, and spikes. And then around 10 am, a couple hours after we’ve had our breakfast, our blood sugar will drop again, causing symptoms of hypoglycemia, which can worsen stress, it can trigger cortisol release and cause fatigue, worsening of anxiety and depression. And then throughout the day our blood sugar’s going to go up and down as we start to crave sugar again and it’s more likely to throw us off our balanced state that we want to be in.
So I start by recommending 20-30 g of protein to my patients in the morning and they often ask me what they can eat. And I’ll recommend something like leftovers from the night before, like a chicken breast has about 30 g of protein. Other patients ask “can I eat eggs?” And eggs are wonderful to eat but in order to get 30 g of protein you need to eat about 5 or 6 eggs, which is not typical. We usually eat 1 or 2. Although eggs is a great addition. You can throw eggs into your smoothie as well.
It’s also important to get a nice source of fat in your smoothie. So this is something that we often leave out, we don’t put sources into smoothies and so I recommend something like ground flaxseed or coconut oil, olive oil if you have that lying around, avocado, you can even through your fish oil in, if you’re that kind of person.
And I always throw in a leafy green, which you can’t taste. A cup of something like spinach or kale is a source of leafy greens. It’s full of fat-soluble vitamins as well as things that help us detoxify the estrogens from our body and keep our hormones balanced. This is something I always recommend for women with irregular periods or heavy periods, or things like PCOS, Polycystic ovarian syndrome, endometriosis, infertility. Anything that causes estrogen to go off and if you’ve read some of my articles you know that a lot of us suffer from estrogen-dominance. This is just more estrogen than progesterone in the female body. Even men can suffer from this and that’s because we’re just exposed to so many things, so many toxins in our environment that are activating estrogen receptors. So by eating leafy greens, we allow our bodies to detoxify a lot of those xeno-estrogens, those toxic estrogens in our environment.
So all you need is a blender. I like to throw in some baby spinach, pre-washed. I just eye it and throw in a couple of handfuls. That amount. Just a couple servings of spinach. The nice thing about things like spinach is it blends really well. You don’t taste it and depending on how much other ingredients you throw in, your smoothie might not even be green, so you can also fool your kids by throwing some spinach in their smoothies.
I always throw in some frozen berries. You can put in blueberries or a berry medley. I get it from No Frills for about $11 for a bag. Frozen’s nice because your smoothie gets icey. It might not be the best for winter but the days are still warm our digestive fire is still strong enough to be able to digest things that are cold.
Today the fat I’m going to add is coconut oil. Coconut oil is a saturated fat, but it contains medium-chain triglycerides, which our body doesn’t need to convert into sugar to be used as energy so we can just use them right away as an energy source. It’s great for the skin and it’s great for gut-healing because of its anti-fungal properties. It’s also really good for balancing blood sugar and boosting our metabolism. 2 tablespoons, I put in.
Fats are great medicinal foods. You can throw in a couple tablespoons of olive oil if you have cholesterol issues, blood sugar issues. The right kinds of fats are very anti-inflammatory and we know that inflammation is implicated in things like digestive issues, depression and anxiety, stress and so, by making sure we’re getting the right balance of fats in our diet, you can start in your morning smoothie, by setting your fat balance on the right track, be able to balance inflammation and feel really good throughout the day.
This smoothie will also keep you full really long, well into the afternoon because of the source of fats in it. I like to throw in things like eggs as well, just raw eggs. It’s difficult for me to really recommend it universally to all my patients because there is, of course, the risk of salmonella in raw eggs. So, at your own risk you can try it out, but I find it really makes it taste nice and rich as well as give us a good source of cholesterol. And cholesterol’s a good thing, because we need cholesterol to make hormones. Especially in depression and anxiety. You don’t want to be sacrificing cholesterol or taking—of course this depends on your health history—but there’s a risk of depression in people who are taking statin drugs, cholesterol-lowering drugs that are lowing our cholesterol in the body because how are we making our hormones if we don’t have enough cholesterol.
You can also throw in something like an avocado, it makes it nice and thick and rich or some peanut butter or almond butter, or nut butter. I’m also going to throw in some ground flaxseed.
Flax has two really great medicinal benefits. I use it for hormone-balancing in a lot of my patients with things like period irregularities or amenorrhea, this is not getting your period, infertility. So what flax does is it activates estrogen receptors. But it activates them weakly so if you’ve too much estrogen, the flax competes for the estrogen by binding to receptors preventing those hyper-estrogenic effects and if you don’t have enough estrogen, so in the case of post-menopause or ovarian failure, flax binds to estrogen receptors and causes the estrogen effects that we really want, like libido and energy and the expression of female sex characteristics. It can also clear skin and it’s great for acne, it’s great for regulating periods. It’s great for balancing heavy periods, bringing periods back and making them more regular.
Flax is also great for constipation because it’s a good source of fibre and you need to grind the flax, it needs to be milled. And this is because our body can’t break down whole flaxseeds. So you might have seen breads or crackers where there’s whole flaxseeds and they advertise flax on the package, well it really doesn’t so us any good. It just passes right through the body. It’s not adding those fibres or medicinal fats.
Finally, this is a protein powder that I just got from Bulk Barn. I find that Bulk Barn is the cheapest in terms of protein powders. I use a vegan protein powder. So this is great is you’re vegan or vegetarian. Whey is the best absorbed protein, but personally I have a food sensitivity to whey, caseine and other dairy products, so I go with vegan protein, which is a mix of pea protein, hemp protein and rice protein. But you can also use whey. If you’re sensitive to dairy and not sure if you’re sensitive to whey, always go with a whey isolate, because whey isolate doesn’t contain caseine, which is the protein in milk that most people react to. So it’s just pure whey.
In my protein powder, I also mix gelatin. So gelatin is just a crystalized powder. I put in one scoop of protein powder for 30 grams of protein. So gelatin comes from the hooves of animals. It’s rich in collagen and it can actually increase the amount of collagen in the body. It’s an incomplete protein, so it has a lot of an amino acid called glycine, which most of us are deficient in because we don’t get a lot of glycine from the meat of animals. It’s actually located in the collagen. Glycine’s a really calming neurotransmitter. We use it to bind minerals, so if you’re my patient you might have been prescribed magnesium glycinate, which is an easier absorbed form of magnesium, also a source of glycine, to help calm the body. It activates those suppressive neurotransmitters, the GABA pathways in the brain so it’s great for calming anxiety and great for preparing us for sleep. But it doesn’t make you tired for the rest of the day. What’s great about getting a source of collagen is that it can help with gut healing. It can help with the integrity of the gut in leaky gut situations and it’s great for the skin and hair because we know our skin is made of collagen as well as our joints. So, if you have acne, acne scars, if you’re suffering from premature aging or sun damage, a couple tablespoons of gelatin or collagen hydrosylate is a great thing that you can do every morning.
So I’m just going to add in, as your liquid source you can add in something like water, I usually just use water or almond milk. I’m going to use coconut milk today because it’s delicious. I’m going to mix a little bit of coconut milk with water. Just tap water. I’m going to add some tap water. So how much water you add depends on how thick you want your smoothie and the quality of your blender. I filled it up to about 500 ml. I like to eat a lot in the mornings.
Put it into your blender. So this is my smoothie pre. And then you just pour your smoothie in a glass. Mine’s kind of on the watery side. It turns out purple, not green at all, so you can still fool the kids. If you want to make it sweeter, you can add in half a banana, or even some maple syrup. But it tastes pretty good. It tastes like berries.
So this is great because liquid is obviously, it’s pre-chewed, so it’s easier for our body to absorb the nutrients, which is nice in the morning, especially for people who aren’t really into breakfast. It’s also really portable you can put it in a mason jar or a glass container and take it to work. You can drink it half before leaving for work and half while in your in the car or commute or on the subway. A lot of your nutrition for the day is taken care of. So, even if you, have not-an-ideal lunch or dinner you’ve gotten a great source of highly-absorbable protein, you’ve gotten some gut-healing in in the form of gelatin. You’ve gotten some healthy fats and a serving of leafy greens and anti-oxidant-rich berries. So, you’re on your way for a healthy day.
Alternate nostril breathing is a yogic breathing practice that can help boost mental clarity and calm the mind.
Hello, everyone. My name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani and I’m a naturopathic doctor with a special focus in mental health and emotional wellness and today I’d like to show you a special kind of breathing technique for balancing both the right and left hemispheres of the brain.
This breathing technique can help, if we’re feeling overwhelmed and if we’re feeling anxious, to calm the body down, and bring us out of that fight-or-flight stress response. And likewise, if we’re feeling really depleted and tired it can bring up our energy levels and give us a boost of clarity and concentration.
In Ayurvedic medicine—this is the ancient Indian medicine—it’s believed that each nostril supplies oxygen for each side of the brain: the right and left hemispheres. And we know from neuroscience that the right hemisphere of the brain is more involved in creativity and relationships and intuition, whereas the left hemisphere is more analytical and language-based and reason-based. The right side of the body is more masculine and Yang in nature and the left side is more Yin in nature. It’s believed in Ayurvedic medicine that each nostril controls oxygen to each side of the brain.
So this only takes about 3-5 minutes and I encourage you to try it just as a meditation technique if you’re beginning a meditation practice, or to calm the body or something to do before sleep where you can balance the brain and relax the body before drifting off into a sounder and better night’s sleep.
So if you take a seat on the floor or on a surface like your bed, you can sit in a cross-legged position. Or if you’re sitting in a chair have your feet flat on the floor and your back straight. So just have your shoulders back and down and keep your back in a straight, upright position. It shouldn’t feel too stiff. You should have a natural curve at the back of your spine.
Have your left arm either palm facing down or palm facing up on your left knee.
Take your right hand. You’re going to take the index fingers, the peace sign, and you’re going to place them right between your eyebrows. This is the “Third Eye”. You’re going to have your ring finger and your thumb free.
Just take a moment. You can close your eyes or you can watch what I’m doing here, but I’ll talk you through it. Now I just want you to feel your breath deepen. So send your breath to the lower abdomen. If you want you can place your hand on the lower abdomen and just feel the breath move the abdomen in and out as you breathe.
Deeper breaths have a calming and more calming effect on the body. They also stimulate the vagus nerve, which is the nerve that runs from our brain to our digestive system and is involved in calming the body down and bringing it into that rest and digest state.
When you’re ready take one deep, cleansing breath in and exhale and then block off the right nostril with your thumb. Breathe in through the left nostril. Using the ring finger close both nostrils and then release your thumb and the right nostril and exhale.
Breathe in through the right nostril… block it off…hold… and release and breathe out through the left. Now try it again. So, breathe in through the left, block it off, and exhale through the right. Inhale through the right. Block it off. Exhale through the left. Inhale again through the left. Block it off. And exhale through the right. So, if you want you can stop here and just continue on your own, but let’s continue together for another two minutes. I’ll just guide you through it. Inhale through the right nostril. Block. Exhale through the left. Inhale. Block. Exhale through the right. Inhale. Block it off. Exhale through the left. Inhale through the left. Block. And exhale through the right. Inhale. Block. And exhale.
One more cycle. Inhale. Block. Exhale. Inhale. Block. And exhale. Now place both hands on your knees, facing up or down. Keep your eyes closed and take a couple more inhales, breathing into the belly. Notice how you’re feeling; if you’re feeling a sense of calm, or an increased sense of clarity. You probably noticed that one of your nostrils was more blocked than the other one and that through doing this practice you managed to either switch which nostril was activated or clear both for better breathing.
If you want you can take a few moments here and just pay attention to your breath, or begin your meditation practice. Or, continue on your day. Thanks!
