It was a crappy week and I was chatting with a friend online. He said something that triggered me… it just hit some sort of nerve. I backed away from my computer, feeling heavy. I went to the kitchen to pour myself a glass of water and collapsed, elbows on the counter, head in my hands, my body shaking and wracking with deep, guttural sobs.
A few seconds later, I’m not sure how long exactly, I stood up. Tears and snot streaming down my face, I wiped them off with a tissue. I felt lighter, clearer. I was still heavy and sad, but there was a part of me that had opened. I went back to my computer and relayed some of this to my friend, “what you said triggered me, but it’s ok, it just hit a personal nerve. I’m ok now though, I know you didn’t mean any harm”. I typed to him.
Joan Rosenberg, PhD in her book 90 Seconds to a Life You Love, would have said that, in that moment, I had been open to feeling the moment-to-moment experience of my emotions and bodily sensations. I felt the waves of emotions run through my body, and let them flow for a total of up to 90 seconds. And, in so welcoming that experience and allowing it to happen rather than blocking it, fighting it, projecting it (onto my friend or others), I was able to release it and let it go.
For many of us, avoidance is our number one strategy when it comes to our emotions. We don’t like to feel uncomfortable. We don’t like unpleasant sensations, thoughts and feelings and, most of all, we don’t like feeling out of control. Emotions can be painful. In order to avoid these unpleasant experiences, we distract ourselves. We try to numb our bodies and minds to prevent these waves of emotion and bodily sensation from welling up inside of us. We cut ourselves off.
The problem, however is that we can’t just cut off one half of our emotional experience. When we cut off from the negative emotions, we dampen the positive ones as well.
This can result in something that Dr. Rosenberg titles, “soulful depression”, the result of being disconnected from your own personal experience, which includes your thoughts, emotions and body sensations.
Soulful depression is characterized by an internal numbness, or a feeling of emptiness. Over time it can transform into isolation, alienation and hopelessness–perhaps true depression.
Anxiety in many ways is a result of cutting ourselves off from emotional experience as well. It is a coping mechanism: a way that we distract ourselves from the unpleasant emotions we try to disconnect from.
When we worry or feel anxious our experience is often very mental. We might articulate that we are worried about a specific outcome. However, it’s not so much the outcome we are worried about but a fear and desire to avoid the unpleasant emotions that might result from the undesired outcome–the thing we are worrying about. In a sense, anxiety is a way that we distract from the experience of our emotions, and transmute them into more superficial thoughts or worries.
When you are feeling anxious, what are you really feeling?
Dr. Rosenberg writes that there are eight unpleasant feelings:
sadness
shame
helplessness
anger
embarrassment
disappointment
frustration
vulnerability
Often when we are feeling anxious we are actually feeling vulnerable, which is an awareness that we can get hurt (and often requires a willingness to put ourselves out there, despite this very real possibility).
When we are able to stay open to, identify and allow these emotions to come through us, Dr. Rosenberg assures us that we will be able to develop confidence, resilience, and a feeling of emotional strength. We will be more likely to speak to our truth, combat procrastination, and bypass negative self-talk.
She writes, “Your sense of feeling capable in the world is directly tied to your ability to experience and move through the eight difficult feelings”.
Like surfing a big wave, when we ride the waves of the eight difficult emotions we realize that we can handle anything, as the rivers of life are more able to flow through us and we feel more present to our experience: both negative and positive.
One of the important skills involved in “riding the waves” of difficult feelings is to learn to tolerate the body sensations that they produce. For many people, these sensations will feel very intense–especially if you haven’t practice turning towards them, but the important thing to remember is that they will eventually subside, in the majority of cases in under 90 seconds.
Therefore, the key is to stay open to the flow of the energy from these emotions and body sensations, breathe through them and watch them crescendo and dissipate.
This idea reminds me of the poem by Rumi, The Guest House:
This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.
One of the reasons I was so drawn to Dr. Rosenberg’s book is this idea of the emotional waves lasting no more than 90 seconds. We are so daunted by these waves because they require our surrender. It is very difficult however, if you suffer from anxiety to let go of control. To gives these emotional waves a timeframe can help us stick it out. 90 seconds is the length of a short song! We can tolerate almost anything for 90 seconds. I found this knowledge provided me with a sense of freedom.
The 90 seconds thing comes from Dr. Jill Bolt Taylor who wrote the famous book My Stroke of Insight (watch her amazing Ted Talk by the same name). When an emotion is triggered, she states, chemicals from the brain are released into the bloodstream and surge through the body, causing body sensations.
Much like a wave washing through us, the initial sensation is a rush of the chemicals that flood our tissues, followed by a flush as they leave. The rush can occur as blushing, heat, heaviness, tingling, is over within 90 seconds after which the chemicals have completely been flushed out of the bloodstream.
Dr. Rosenberg created a method she calls the “Rosenberg Reset”, which involves three steps:
Stay aware of your moment-to-moment experience. Fully feel your feelings, thoughts, bodily sensations. Choose to be aware of and not avoid your experience.
Experience and move through the eight difficult feelings when they occur. These are: sadness, shame, helplessness, anger, embarrassment, disappointment, frustration, vulnerability.
Ride one or more 90 second waves of bodily sensations that these emotions produce.
Many therapeutic techniques such as mindfulness, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, somatic therapy, and so on utilize these principles. When we expand our window of tolerance and remain open to our physical and emotional experience we allow energy to move through us more gracefully. We move through our stuckness.
Oftentimes though, we can get stuck underwater, or hung up on the crest of a wave. Rumination and high levels of cortisol, our stress hormone can prolong the waves of unpleasant emotion. We may be more susceptible to this if we have a narrow window of tolerance due to trauma.
However, many of us can get stuck in the mind, and when we ruminate on an emotionally triggering memory over and over again, perhaps in an effort to solve it or to make sense of it, we continue to activate the chemicals in our body that produce the emotional sensation.
Therefore, it’s the mind that can keep us stuck, not the emotions themselves. Harsh self-criticism can also cause feelings to linger.
I have found that stories and memories, grief, terror and rage can become stuck in our bodies. Books like The Body Keeps the Score speak to this–when we block the waves, or when the waves are too big we can build up walls around them. We compartmentalize them, we shut them away and these little 90 second waves start to build up, creating energetic and emotional blockages.
In Vipassana they were referred to as sankharas, heaps of clinging from mental activity and formations that eventually solidify and get lodged in the physical body, but can be transformed and healed.
Perhaps this is why a lot of trauma work involves large emotional purges. Breathwork, plant medicines such as Ayahuasca, and other energetic healing modalities often encourage a type of purging to clear this “sludge” that tends to accumulate in our bodies.
My friend was commenting on the idea that her daughter, about two years old, rarely gets sick. “She’ll have random vomiting spells,” my friend remarked, “and then, when she’s finished, she recovers and plays again”.
“It reminds me of a mini Ayahuasca ceremony”, I remarked, jokingly, “maybe babies are always in some sort of Ayahuasca ceremony.”
This ability to cry, to purge, to excrete from the body is likely key to emotional healing. I was listening to a guest on the Aubrey Marcus podcast, Blu, describe this: when a story gets stuck in a person it often requires love and a permission to move it, so that it may be purged and released.
Fevers, food poisoning, deep fitful spells of sobbing may all be important for clearing up the backlog of old emotional baggage and sludge so that we can free up our bodies to ride these 90 second emotional waves in our moment-to-moment experience.
Grief is one of these primary sources of sludge in my opinion. Perhaps because we live in a culture that doesn’t quite know how to handle grief–that time-stamps it, limits it, compartmentalizes it, commercializes it, and medicates it–many of us suffer from an accumulation of suppressed grief sankharas that has become lodged in our bodies.
Frances Weller puts it this way,
“Depression isn’t depression, it’s oppression–the accumulated weight of decades of untouched losses that have turned into sediment, an oppressive weight on the soul. Processing loss is how the majority of therapies work, by touching sorrow upon sorry that was never honoured or given it’s rightful attention.”
Like a suppressed bowel movement, feelings can be covered up, distracted from. However, when we start to turn our attention to them we might find ourselves running to the nearest restroom. Perhaps in these moments it’s important to get in touch with someone to work with, a shaman of sorts, or a spiritual doula, someone who can help you process these large surges of energy that your body is asking you to purge.
However, it is possible to set our dial to physiological neutral to, with courage turn towards our experience, our emotions and body sensations. And to know that we can surf them, and even if we wipe out from time to time, we might end up coming out the other side, kicking out, as Rumi says, “laughing”.
The only way out is through.
As Jon Kabat Zinn says, “you can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf”.
It’s day one of my period and I’ve been healing a broken foot for 6 weeks. The weather is overcast, thick, humid and rainy.
My body feels thick and heavy. Clothing leaves an imprint on my skin–socks leave deep indentations in my ankles. My face and foot is swollen. My tongue feels heavy. My mind feels dull, achey, and foggy. It’s hard to put coherent words together.
I feel cloudy and sleepy. Small frustrations magnify. It’s hard to maintain perspective.
My muscles ache. My joints throb slightly. They feel stiffer and creakier.
This feeling is transient. The first few days of the menstrual cycle are characterized by an increase in prostaglandins that stimulate menstrual flow and so many women experience an aggravation of inflammatory symptoms like depression, arthritis, or autoimmune conditions around this time. You might get. a cold sore outbreak, or a migraine headache around this time of month. The phenomenon can be exaggerated with heavy, humid weather, and chronic inflammation–such as the prolonged healing process of mending a broken bone.
Inflammation.
It’s our body’s beautiful healing response, bringing water, nutrients, and immune cells to an area of injury or attack. The area involved swells, heats up, becomes red, and might radiate pain. And then, within a matter of days, weeks, or months, the pathogen is neutralized, the wound heals and the inflammatory process turns off, like a switch.
However, inflammation can be low-grade and chronic. Many chronic health conditions such as diabetes, arthritis, PMS or PMDD, depression, anxiety, migraines, even bowel and digestive issues, have an inflammatory component.
In the quest to manage chronic inflammation, people often explore various avenues, including dietary supplements. One such natural option gaining attention is OrganicCBDNugs. Derived from the hemp plant, CBD, or cannabidiol, is believed to possess anti-inflammatory properties, potentially offering relief to those struggling with conditions like arthritis, anxiety, or migraines.
This organic supplement, with its purported ability to interact with the body’s endocannabinoid system, might provide a holistic approach to tackling inflammation-related issues. As we navigate the complexities of our bodies and the ebb and flow of inflammation, exploring natural remedies like Organic CBD could be a step toward finding equilibrium and promoting overall well-being.
As I telly my patients. Inflammation is “everything that makes you feel bad”. Therefore anti-inflammatory practices make you feel good.
Many of us don’t realize how good we can feel because low-grade inflammation is our norm.
We just know that things could be better: we could feel more energy, more lightness of being and body, more uplifted, optimistic mood, clearer thinking and cognitive functioning, better focus, less stiffness and less swelling.
Obesity and weight gain are likely inflammatory processes. Insulin resistance and metabolic syndrome are inflammatory in nature. It’s hard to distinguish between chronic swelling and water retention due to underlying low-grade chronic inflammation and actual fat gain, and the two can be closely intertwined.
It’s unfortunate then, that weight loss is often prescribed as a treatment plan for things like hormonal imbalances, or other conditions caused by metabolic imbalance. Not only has the individual probably already made several attempts to lose weight, the unwanted weight gain is most likely a symptom, rather than a cause, of their chronic health complaint. (Learn how to get to the root of this with my course You Weigh Less on the Moon).
Both the main complaint (the migraines, the PMS, the endometriosis, the depression, the arthritis, etc.) and the weight gain, are likely due to an inflammatory process occurring in the body.
To simply try to cut calories, or eat less, or exercise more (which can be helpful for inflammation or aggravate it, depending on the level of stress someone is under), can only exacerbate the process by creating more stress and inflammation and do nothing to relieve the root cause of the issues at hand.
Even anti-inflammatory over the counter medications like Advil, prescription ones like naproxen, or natural supplements like turmeric (curcumin) have limiting effects. They work wonderfully if the inflammation is self-limiting: a day or two of terrible period cramps, or a migraine headache. However, they do little to resolve chronic low-grade inflammation. If anything they only succeed at temporarily suppressing it only to have it come back with a vengeance.
The issue then, is to uncover the root of the inflammation, and if the specific root can’t be found (like the piece of glass in your foot causing foot pain), then applying a general anti-inflammatory lifestyle is key.
The first place to start is with the gut and nutrition.
Nutrition is at once a complex, confusing, contradictory science and a very simple endeavour. Nutrition was the simplest thing for hundreds of thousands of years: we simply ate what tasted good. We ate meat, fish and all the parts of animals. We ate ripe fruit and vegetables and other plant matter that could be broken down with minimal processing.
That’s it.
We didn’t eat red dye #3, and artificial sweeteners, and heavily modified grains sprayed with glyphosate, and heavily processed flours, and seed oils that require several steps of solvent extraction. We didn’t eat modified corn products, or high fructose corn syrup, or carbonated drinks that are artificially coloured and taste like chemicals.
We knew our food—we knew it intimately because it was grown, raised, or hunted by us or someone we knew—and we knew where it came from.
Now we have no clue. And this onslaught of random food stuffs can wreck havoc on our systems over time. Our bodies are resilient and you probably know someone who apparently thrives on a diet full of random edible food-like products, who’s never touched a vegetable and eats waffles for lunch.
However, our capacity to heal and live without optimal nutrition, regular meals that nourish us and heal us rather than impose another adversity to overcome, can diminish when we start adding in environmental chemicals and toxins, mental and emotional stress, a lack of sleep, and invasion of blue light at all hours of the day, bodies that are prevented from experiencing their full range of motion, and so on.
And so to reduce inflammation, we have to start living more naturally. We need to reduce the inflammation in our environments. We need to put ourselves against a natural backdrop–go for a soothing walk in nature at least once a week.
We need to eat natural foods. Eat meats, natural sustainably raised and regeneratively farmed animal products, fruits and vegetables. Cook your own grains and legumes (i.e.: process your food yourself). Avoid random ingredients (take a look at your oat and almond milk–what’s in the ingredients list? Can you pronounce all the ingredients in those foods? Can you guess what plant or animal each of those ingredients came from? Have you ever seen a carageenan tree?).
Moving to a more natural diet can be hard. Sometimes results are felt immediately. Sometimes our partners notice a change in us before we notice in ourselves (“Hon, every time you have gluten and sugar, don’t you notice you’re snappier the next day, or are more likely to have a meltdown?”).
It often takes making a plan–grocery shopping, making a list of foods you’re going to eat and maybe foods you’re not going to eat, coming up with some recipes, developing a few systems for rushed nights and take-out and snacks–and patience.
Often we don’t feel better right away–it takes inflammation a while to resolve and it takes the gut time to heal. I notice that a lot of my patients are addicted to certain chemicals or ingredients in processed foods and, particularly if they’re suffering from the pain of gut inflammation, it can tempting to go back to the chemicals before that helped numb the pain and delivered the dopamine hit of pleasure that comes from dealing with an addiction. It might help to remember your why. Stick it on the fridge beside your smoothie recipe.
We need to sleep, and experience darkness. If you can’t get your bedroom 100%-can’t see you hand in front of your face-dark, then use an eye mask when sleeping. Give your body enough time for sleep. Less than 7 hours isn’t enough.
We need to move in all sorts of ways. Dance. Walk. Swim. Move in 3D. Do yoga to experience the full range of motion of your joints. Practice a sport that requires your body and mind, that challenges your skills and coordination. Learn balance both in your body and in your mind.
We need to manage our emotional life. Feeling our emotions, paying attention to the body sensations that arise in our bodies—what does hunger feel like? What does the need for a bowel movement feel like? How does thirst arise in your body? Can you recognize those feelings? What about your emotions? What sensations does anger produce? Can you feel anxiety building? What do you do with these emotions once they arise? Are you afraid of them? Do you try to push them back down? Do you let them arise and “meet them at the door laughing” as Rumi says in his poem The Guest House?
Journalling, meditation, mindfulness, hypnosis, breath-work, art, therapy, etc. can all be helpful tools for understanding the emotional life and understanding the role chronic stress (and how it arises, builds, and falls in the body) and toxic thoughts play in perpetuating inflammation.
Detox. No, I don’t mean go on some weird cleanse or drinks teas that keep you on the toilet all day. What I mean is: remove the gunk and clutter from your physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional plumbing. This might look like taking a tech break. Or going off into the woods for a weekend. Eating animals and plants for a couple of months, cutting out alcohol, or coffee or processed foods for a time.
It might involve cleaning your house with vinegar and detergents that are mostly natural ingredients, dumping the fragrances from your cosmetics and cleaning products, storing food in steel and glass, rather than plastic. It might mean a beach clean-up. Or a purging of your closet–sometimes cleaning up the chaos in our living environments is the needed thing for reducing inflammation. It’s likely why Marie Kondo-ing and the Minimalist Movement gained so much popularity–our stuff can add extra gunk to our mental, emotional, and spiritual lives.
Detoxing isn’t just a trendy buzzword; it’s about fostering clarity and wellness in every aspect of our lives, including our living spaces. A clean, organized home can significantly contribute to a healthier mindset and emotional balance. That’s where Clean 4 You comes in, offering a fresh perspective on home cleaning that goes beyond mere tidiness.
They understand that clutter and grime can weigh heavily on our mental and emotional states, which is why they provide services tailored to create an environment that supports your detox journey. By enlisting the help of professionals, you can focus on nurturing yourself while they take care of transforming your space into a sanctuary.
If you’re seeking assistance specifically designed for individuals with unique needs, the NDIS Cleaner Perth service from Clean 4 You is here to help. This dedicated team is trained to cater to the requirements of those on the National Disability Insurance Scheme, ensuring that every client receives the support they need for a clean and safe living environment.
With a commitment to using eco-friendly products and methods, Clean 4 You allows you to detox your home in a way that aligns with your values, providing peace of mind as you embrace a healthier lifestyle. With their expertise, you can achieve a pristine space that not only looks good but feels good, allowing you to focus on your personal wellness journey.
Finally, connect with your community. Loneliness is inflammatory. And this past year and a half have been very difficult, particularly for those of you who live alone, who are in transition, who aren’t in the place you’d like to be, or with the person or people you’d like to be–your soul family.
It takes work to find a soul family. I think the first steps are to connect and attune to oneself, to truly understand who you are and move toward that and in that way people can slowly trickle in.
We often need to take care of ourselves first, thereby establishing the boundaries and self-awareness needed to call in the people who will respect and inspire us the most. It’s about self-worth. How do you treat yourself as someone worthy of love and belonging?
Perhaps it first comes with removing the sources of inflammation from our lives, so we can address the deeper layers of our feelings and body sensations and relieve the foggy heaviness and depression and toxic thoughts that might keep us feeling stuck.
Once we clear up our minds and bodies, and cool the fires of inflammation, we start to see better—the fog lifts. We start to think more clearly. We know who we are. Our cravings subside. We can begin to process our shame, anger and sadness.
We start to crave nourishing things: the walk in nature, the quiet afternoon writing poetry, the phone call with a friend, the stewed apples with cinnamon (real sweetness). We free up our dopamine receptors for wholesome endeavours. We start to move in the direction of our own authenticity. I think this process naturally attracts people to us. And naturally attracts us to the people who have the capacity to love and accept us the way we deserve.
Once we start to build community, especially an anti-inflammatory community—you know, a non-toxic, nourishing, wholesome group of people who make your soul sing, the path becomes easier.
You see, when you are surrounded by people who live life the way you do–with a respect for nature, of which our bodies are apart–who prioritize sleep, natural nutrition, mental health, movement, emotional expression, and self-exploration, it becomes more natural to do these things. It no longer becomes a program or a plan, or a process you’re in. It becomes a way of life–why would anyone do it any other way?
The best way to overcome the toxicity of a sick society is to create a parallel one.
When you’re surrounded by people who share your values. You no longer need to spend as much energy fighting cravings, going against the grain, or succumbing to self-sabotage, feeling isolated if your stray from the herb and eat vegetables and go to sleep early.
You are part of a culture now. A culture in which caring for yourself and living according to your nature is, well… normal and natural.
There’s nothing to push against or detox from. You can simply rest in healing, because healing is the most natural thing there is.
About a month ago I fractured my right 5th metatarsal (an avulsion fracture, aka “The Dancer’s Fracture” or a “Pseudo-Jones Fracture”).
As soon as I laid eyes on the x-ray and the ER doctor declared, “Ms. Marcheggiani,” (actually, it’s doctor, but ok) “you broke your foot!” things changed.
I have never broken anything before, but if you have you know what it’s like. In a matter of seconds I couldn’t drive. I could barely put weight on it. I was given an Aircast boot to hobble around in, and told to ice and use anti-inflammatories sparingly. My activities: surfing, skateboarding, yoga, even my daily walks, came to a startling halt.
I spent the first few days on the couch, my foot alternating between being elevated in the boot and immersed in an ice bath. I took a tincture with herbs like Solomon’s Seal, mullein, comfrey, and boneset to help heal the bone faster. I was adding about 6 tbs of collagen to oats in the morning. I was taking a bone supplement with microcrystalline hydroxyapatite, pellets of homeopathic symphytum, zinc, and vitamin D.
We call this “treatment stacking”: throwing everything but the kitchen sink at something to give the body as many resources as possible that it may use to heal.
My brother’s wedding came and went. I was the emcee, and the best man. I bedazzled my boot and hobbled around during set-up, photos, presentations, and even tried shaking and shimmying, one-legged on the dance floor. The next few days I sat on the couch with my leg up.
I watched the Olympics and skateboarding videos. I read The Master and the Margarita and Infinite Jest. I got back into painting and created some pen drawings, trying to keep my mind busy.
I slept long hours–an amount that I would have previously assumed to be incapable. The sleep felt necessary and healing. I was taking melatonin to deepen it further.
I closed down social media apps on my phone to deal with the immense FOMO and stop mindlessly scrolling. I journaled instead, turning my focus from the outside world to my inner one.
It was a painful process, and not necessarily physically.
I was confined to my immediate surroundings–not able to walk far or drive. I was at the mercy of friends and family to help me grocery shop. The last year and a half has made many of us grow accustomed to social isolation and a lot of my social routines from years prior had fallen by the wayside.
My world, like the worlds of many, had gotten smaller over the last 18 months. With a broken foot, my world shrunk even further.
The loneliness was excruciating.
It would come in waves.
One moment I would relish the time spent idle and unproductive. The next I would be left stranded by my dopamine receptors, aimless, sobbing, grieving something… anything… from my previous life. And perhaps not just the life I had enjoyed pre-broken foot, but maybe a life before society had “broken”, or even before my heart had.
I thought I would be more mentally productive and buckle down on work projects but it became painfully obvious that my mental health and general productivity are tightly linked to my activity levels. And so I spent a lot of the weeks letting my bone heal in a state of waiting energy.
My best friend left me a voicemail that said, “Yes… you’re in that waiting energy. But, you know, something will come out of it. Don’t be hard on yourself. Try to enjoy things… watch George Carlin…”
During the moments where I feel completely useless and unproductive, waiting for life to begin, I was reminded of this quote by Cheryl Strayed. This quote speaks to me through the blurry, grey haze of boredom and the existential urgency of wasting time.
It says,
“The useless days will add up to something. The shitty waitressing jobs. The hours writing in your journal. The long meandering walks. The hours reading poetry and story collections and novels and dead people’s diaries and wondering about sex and God and whether you should shave under your arms or not. These things are your becoming.”
These things are your becoming.
Something will come out of it.
When I did a 10-Day Vipassana (silent meditation) retreat in the summer of 2018, I learned about pain.
It was Day 3 or 4 and we had been instructed to sit for an entire hour without moving. The pain was excruciating. The resistance was intense. I was at war with myself and then, when the gong went off and there was nothing to push against, I noticed a complete relief of tension. I was fine.
The next time I sat to meditate (another hour after a 10 minute break), I observed the resistance and released it. It’s hard to describe exactly what I did. It was something like, letting the sensations of pain flow through me like leaves on a river, rather than trying to cup my hands around them, or understand or making meaning out of them.
The sensations ebbed and flowed. Some might have been called “unpleasant” but I wasn’t in a space to judge them while I was just a casual observer, watching them flow by. They just were.
And when I have intense feelings of loneliness, boredom or heart-break I try to remember the experience I had with pain and discomfort on my meditation cushion. I try to allow them.
“This too shall pass”.
When I have a craving to jump off my couch and surf, or an intense restlessness in the rest of my body, the parts that aren’t broken, I try to let those sensations move through me.
I notice how my foot feels. How while apparently still, beneath my external flesh my body is busy: it’s in a process. It’s becoming something different than it was before. It’s becoming more than a foot that is unbroken. It’s becoming callused and perhaps stronger.
Maybe my spirit is in such a process as well.
The antidote to boredom and loneliness very often is a process of letting them move through, of observing the sensations and stepped back, out of the river to watch them flow by. A patience. Letting go.
I can’t surf today. But, it is the nature of waves that there will always be more.
Pima Chodron in her book When Things Fall Apart also references physical pain and restless in meditation while speaking of loneliness.
She writes,
“Usually we regard loneliness as the enemy. Heartache is not something we choose to invite in. It’s restless and pregnant and hot with desire to escape and find something or someone to keep us company. When we can rest in the middle, we begin to have a nonthreatening relationship with loneliness, a relaxing and cooling loneliness that completely turns our usual fearful patterns upside down.”
She continues,
“When you wake up in the morning and out of nowhere comes the heartache of alienation and loneliness, could you use that as a golden opportunity? Rather than persecuting yourself or feeling that something terribly wrong is happening, right there in the moment of sadness and longing, could you relax and touch the limitless space of the human heart?
“The next time you get a chance, experiment with this.”
My friend Nelson (not his real name) was depressed.
Depression frequently came in and out of Nelson’s life, but this last bout was the worst.
Severe job stress compounded by issues with his relationship sent Nelson into a downward spiral, leaving him broken, sobbing and exhausted after engaging in the simplest of tasks.
Sadness and a feeling of doom rushed in to greet him at the end of each sleepless night. Nelson gained weight, despite never truly feeling hungry. His face appeared sunken and swollen. Despite sleeping 14 hours a day, dark circles hung under his eyes.
Since focusing and concentrating on work was impossible, he asked his psychiatrist to help him apply for mental health leave. Nelson was granted sick leave, as well as a prescription for Effexor, and a recommendation to get as much rest as possible.
After a year, Nelson felt worse. When rest and the medication weren’t working, he started exercising vigorously. He hired a nutritionist who cleaned up his diet, and he started taking fish oil and a B complex, among other supplements.
Even then, he still struggled. The hopelessness was still there. Returning to work at this point seemed impossible.
Nelson opened up to a friend about his struggles.
“I went through a similar thing a few years ago,” Nelson’s friend confessed. “And the thing that helped the most was micro-dosing.”
Micro-dosing, taking small doses of psychedelic substances, like LSD or psilocybin-containing “magic” mushrooms, entered the public consciousness in early 2015, after James Fadiman, PhD and author of The Psychedelic Explorer’s Guide, appeared on the Tim Ferris Podcast.
It involves taking a “sub-perceptual” dose of a hallucinogen, like LSD or Psilocybe cubensis “magic” mushrooms, that contain the hallucinogen psilocybin. A sub-perceptual dose means that, while these substances still exert effects, they don’t produce a noticeable hallucinogenic “high”.
According to Paul Austin at the The Third Wave, people micro-dose for two main reasons: to remove negative mood states, such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, addiction, and ADD; and to increase positive mood states such as flow, creativity, improved productivity and focus, and sociability.
Micro-dosing has been used experimentally in individuals trying to quit smoking and to heal depression.
After listening to the podcast and reading some of the articles his friend sent him, Nelson managed to obtain capsules containing 200 mg of dried psilocybin mushrooms. Procuring these substances is still illegal, but Nelson figured he had nothing to lose.
When I caught up with Nelson, he was already a few weeks into his micro-dosing regimen. I asked him how he was doing.
“I’m actually feeling better than I have in months,” he told me, smiling. “I’m not passing out on the couch anymore. I wake up at 7 every morning without an alarm. I feel optimistic for the first time in months. And it seems to be consistent!
“This week I’ve managed to attend three social events and I seem… more motivated. My workout game improved too. Also, I’m not sure I’m ready to go back to work just yet but I’ve noticed my motivation has picked up. So much so that I’ve started taking free programming courses online. I—I can’t really believe it.”
Research on Psychedelics for Depression
Unfortunately, we can’t draw any sound conclusions from Nelson’s experience; scientific data from randomized control studies is still lacking. However, the growing collection of anecdotes on the benefits of micro-dosing for mental health and well-being has caught the attention of researchers.
Thomas Anderson, a PhD candidate at the University of Toronto, polled almost one thousand participants on social media channels and message boards, like Reddit, to gather some initial data on the benefits and drawbacks of micro-dosing hallucinogens.
The micro-dosers that Anderson and his team polled reported higher levels of creativity, and improved mood and focus. They claimed to notice a reduction in depression and anxiety symptoms, increased motivation to eat right and exercise, cognitive enhancement, improved self-efficacy and heightened social functioning.
They reported that the main drawback they experienced was obtaining these substances, which are currently illegal in The US and Canada.
Although interesting, this self-reported data isn’t hard science. To increase objectivity, Anderson and his team presented the participants with tests of creativity (finding out how many uses they could find for common objects, for instance) and questionnaires that measured wisdom. The micro-dosers scored high on both these metrics. They also scored lower in tests that measured negative emotion.
Anderson and his colleagues plan to publish these preliminary findings in a series of papers. They are currently in the process of obtaining Health Canada approval for a controlled study.
Psychedelic research was terminated in the 1960’s, leaving a massive knowledge gap of their therapeutic potential. But now, with the publication of Fadiman’s Psychedelic Explorer’s Guide and Michael Pollen’s even more recent How to Change Your Mind, psychedelics are receiving a fresh surge of interest, particularly for their mental health benefits.
One of the prominent names in this new-wave research community is Robin Carhart-Harris, PhD, at Imperial College London, who is investigating psilocybin as a treatment for severe depression.
Published in a 2016 issue of Lancet Psychiatry, Carhart-Harris administered two doses (one small and one moderate) of psilocybin, spaced one week apart, to twelve patients with Major Depressive Disorder. The doses were administered in a controlled, therapeutic setting, and symptoms were rated immediately after therapy, and then again at one and three months.
The study results were remarkable. Five of the twelve patients dropped from “severe depression” to “no depression” immediately after receiving the second dose. All of the study participants experienced an overall reduction in symptoms with five of the study participants remaining depression-free after three months.
Roland Griffiths, Phd, at John Hopkins, is involved in a number of studies examining psilocybin’s ability to induce mystical experiences in terminally ill patients.
In a 2016 randomized, double-blind, placebo-controlled crossover trial published in the Journal of Psychopharmacology, he and his team found that administering high-dose psilocybin to terminally ill cancer patients increased mood, quality of life and optimism, and decreased death anxiety. These benefits were sustained at the six month follow-up. Over 80% of the study participants claimed to experience greater life satisfaction and feelings of well-being.
How Psychedelics Work to Boost Mood
LSD, psilocybin, and other psychedelics, work like serotonin in the brain by acting on serotonin receptors, specifically the 5HT2A serotonin receptors.
Like psychedelics, anti-depressant medications, like SSRI and SNRI medications (Selective Serotonin and Selective Serotonin and Norepinephrine Re-uptake Inhibitors), Cipralex and Effexor, respectively, also work on serotonin pathways. However, these medications’ effects are limited: some people improve on them, while others feel no different, or even worse.
SSRI and SNRI medications activate 5HT1A receptors. According to Carhart-Harris, this makes a difference. In his paper on the “Bipartite Model of Serotonin Signalling” he proposes that these receptor pathways help people cope differently.
5HT1A receptors, acted on by anti-depressants, help with “Passive Coping”. They help individuals with depression tolerate the stress in their lives, be it a toxic work environment or destructive relationship—nothing has changed about the situation, you can just deal with it better.
Psychedelic stimulation of 5HT2A receptors activate pathways involved in “Active Coping”: identifying and directly addressing sources of stress. Active coping might mean asserting boundaries at work or applying to new jobs. It might look like ending an unhealthy relationship.
In other words, 5HT2A receptors stimulate neural pathways that reveal previously elusive solutions to problems. They do this by increasing a chemical called Brain-Derived Neurotropic Factor, or BDNF.
BDNF promotes the growth of new brain cells and neural pathways in the brain. These processes, called “neurogenesis” and “neuroplasticity” , are essential for learning, creativity and memory. Research shows that increased neuronal plasticity benefits mood.
Psychedelics also work by disconnecting the brain’s Default Mode Network. The Default Mode Network, or DMN, connects frontal areas of the brain, such as the Medial Prefrontal Cortex, with lower brain areas like the Posterior Cingulate Cortex.
When we’re daydreaming, stuck in traffic, sitting in a waiting room, or otherwise not actively engaged in a mental task, our DMN lights up. In these quiet moments, we lapse into a state of reflection and self-referential thinking. In other words, our minds wander.
If we’re in a good mood, this mind-wandering creates narratives, daydreams and fantasies about the future. If we’re depressed, it leads to rumination, negative over-thinking, and self-criticism, which worsens mood.
Disrupting the DMN allows old thought patterns to fall away, opening up novel possibilities.
Activating Flow States
Shutting off the DMN can help us enter a state of Flow. Flow states occur when we are completely immersed in an activity so worthwhile that our sense of time and self cease. When in flow, we toe the limits of our talents, making these states incredibly rewarding and enriching. They are the antithesis to depressive and anxious mood states.
Psychedelic substances, along with other practices like meditation, help put us in a state of flow. These states are characterized by elevated levels of serotonin and dopamine and calming and focussing alpha brain wave oscillations. When in them, we become capable of incredible things.
In The Psychedelic Explorer’s Guide, James Fadiman writes about “Clifford”, a premed student. Clifford shares,
“I was taking a biology course to prepare for medical school, and we were studying the development of the chick embryo…I realized that in order to stay alert, a tiny dose of LSD could be useful.
“With that in mind, I licked a small, but very potent, tablet emblazoned with the peace sign before every class. This produced a barely noticeable brightening of colours and created a generalized fascination with the course and my professor, who was otherwise uninteresting to me.”
Due to some health issues, Clifford ends up missing the final exam. His professor agrees to a make-up. Before the exam, Clifford pops the rest of the now-tiny LSD tablet into his mouth.
The make-up exam consists of drawing the complete development of the chick from fertilization to hatching—the entire course.
“As I sat there despondently, I closed my eyes and was flooded with grief. Then I noticed that my inner visual field was undulating like a blanket that was being shaken at one end. I began to see a movie of fertilization!
“To my utter amazement, I was able to carefully and completely replicate the content of the entire course, drawing after drawing, like the frames of animation that I was seeing as a completed film!
“It took me an hour and a quarter drawing as fast as I could to reproduce the twenty-one-day miracle of chick formation. Clearly impressed, my now suddenly lovely professor smiled and said, ‘Well, I suppose you deserve an A!’ …the gentle wonder of life was everywhere.”
While impressive, Clifford’s account, like Nelson’s, is merely an anecdote. Far more research is warranted.
Micro-Dosing for Mood
Micro-dosing allows individuals to tap into the 5HT2A receptor-stimulating, BDNF-increasing, DMN-uncoupling, and flow state activating benefits of psychedelics, without the mind-stabilizing effects.
At a sub-perceptual doses there are no weird colours and visuals, alternate realities, or ego deaths. Micro-dosers report that the world merely appears brighter, or that they feel “sparklier”—they experience greater well-being. Otherwise, they can proceed with their lives normally.
Fadiman’s micro-dosing protocol consists of taking a tenth of a full dose, about 10 to 20 mcg of LSD, or 200 to 500 mg of dried-weight psilocybin mushrooms, every three days. This means that if the first dose is taken on Monday (Day 1), then the second dose is taken on Thursday (Day 4). According to Fadiman, spacing doses avoids tolerance, keeping the doses effective.
Participants are encouraged to engage in their daily activities: working, eating, sleeping and exercising normally.
Fadiman recommends participants keep a record of mood, cognition, motivation and productivity. People often report that they feel the best on Day 2, the day after taking a micro-dose.
Drawbacks to Micro-Dosing
In my role as a naturopathic doctor, I can’t recommend or counsel on the use of psychedelic substances for the treatment of any health condition. While the scientific interest in their use as therapeutic agents is growing, these substances are illegal to obtain and possess, and there is a lack of solid research on their safety and efficacy.
As of right now, the only way to legally access psychedelic therapies is through research. MAPS, the Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies, often lists recruitment opportunities for ongoing studies. Thomas Anderson, at the University of Toronto, is in the stages of obtaining Health Canada approval for a randomized control trial on the benefits of micro-dosing in healthy volunteers.
Like all therapies, there are risks to taking these substances, even at low doses. While LSD and psilocybin confer a low risk for addiction and are ten times less harmful than alcohol (the harm scores of LSD and psilocybin are 7 and 5, respectively, compared to 72 for alcohol), they are not completely benign.
Psychedelics can aggravate schizophrenia, psychosis, dissociation, severe anxiety, and panic. They can also interact with medications and supplements that act on serotonin pathways. Their effects at high doses can be disorienting and oftentimes unpleasant: in the studies that showed positive benefit, they were administered under careful supervision, in a therapeutic set and setting.
Our society’s mental health is in crisis. As a clinician who focuses on mental health, I am always excited to learn of new therapies that have the potential to heal mood. With Canada’s 2018 legalization of cannabis, gateways are opening for future uses of psychedelics as medicine. Perhaps with more research and advocacy, we’ll one day see micro-dosing of psychedelic substances as a safe and effective mainstay therapy for promoting mental and emotional well-being.
Since publising the original article about the Mirena IUD on this blog, thousands of women have come out of the woodwork writing to me asking for help.
When I originally wrote the article, I was spurned on by my observations of the women in my practice who had experienced a rise in estrogen dominance and low progesterone after the insertion of their IUDs (which were often inserted to treat hormone imbalances!).
At that point I never imagined that so many women would be affected by the IUD, or that even more were suffering from so many hormonal symptoms that drastically affected their lives and health.
It makes sense: our society does not set us up for proper hormonal function.
Our diets are carbohydrate-heavy, promoting insulin resistance and blood sugar dysregulation, which impacts our ovaries’ ability to make estrogen properly.
An excess amount of body fat produces more estrogen in the body and acts as a reservoir for the toxic estrogens in our environment.
We lack many of the micronutrients necessary to process our hormones properly, such as vitamin D, B vitamins, magnesium, zinc, omega 3 fatty acids, glutathione, and amino acids.
Many of us have impaired or suboptimal liver function, or sluggish digestion, which keeps hormones in our bodies around longer than they should be.
A dysbiotic gut has the tendency to turn estrogen in the gut back “on”, putting it back into circulation when it was otherwise on its way out of the body.
Stress alters our hormonal function, including our ability to make progesterone, DHEA-S, convert thyroid hormones, and process estrogen properly.
Xenoestrogens in our food and environment, from plastics, fragrances, pesticides, and processed soy products, contribute to overall body burden of the hormones in our body, throwing off our delicate balance, and contributing to symptoms.
The result of all this is that many women suffer from hormonal imbalances.
10% of women have some form of PCOS, or Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, characterized by the body’s inability to properly make progesterone or estrogen, instead making loads of male hormones, like testosterone. PCOS alters fertility, promotes weight gain, and causes things like unwanted facial hair growth, acne, and missed periods. PCOS is often connected to stress and insulin resistance.
Many women in my practice suffer from PMS or PMDD, experiencing often debilitating symptoms sometimes even two weeks before their periods begin. They might get migraines, intense cravings for sugar, and massive mood changes, such as anxiety, intense irritability, or devastating depression. Panic attacks can occur at this time as well. Many of them comment that their mood and personalities flip once their hormones levels reach a certain point, causing them to act like different people. This can jeopardize their relationships with spouses and children, coworkers, friends and family.
Tender and painful breasts, or breast lumps, are also common in many of these women.
Acne, weight gain, stress, fatigue, disrupted sleep, depression and anxiety are all symptoms I see in women with hormonal imbalances.
Many women have horrific cycles, experiencing painful and heavy periods that often cause them to miss days of work every month. Many of these women struggle to keep their iron levels in the optimal range, suffering from hair loss, fatigue and weakness.
Many women are diagnosed with fibroids, or endometriosis, or are concerned about their risk of female cancers like breast, ovarian, uterine and cervical cancer.
All of these symptoms are often linked to relatively higher levels of estrogens compared to progesterone, sometimes termed Estrogen Dominance by functional medical practitioners who look at the underlying causes of bodily imbalances.
I feel terrible that I can’t help more of the women who write to me. My license prevents me from giving advice to those who live abroad, especially to non-patients over the internet. It’s a shame, however, because oftentimes the solutions are relatively simple, despite how complicated many of these symptoms might seem.
I’m hoping that this article can provide some direction to many of the women who suffer.
Firstly, I want to state that I am not against birth control or even the Mirena IUD (or other IUDs, for that matter). The vast majority of women with the IUD tolerate it. For many women with debilitating heavy periods and endometriosis it can be the only viable solution that makes life tolerable.
In my social practice at Evergreen, many of the women I see experiencing homelessness, drug addiction, or PTSD from relationship trauma, rely on the efficacy of IUDs to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Their lives often don’t allow for them to remember to consistently take pills every month.
Many women don’t tolerate combination birth control because of a history of blood clots, female cancers, or migraine headaches associated with their periods, and therefore the Mirena IUD, which is progesterone only, is a safe alternative for preventing unwanted pregnancy.
That all being said, many women do suffer on the Mirena IUD (or other forms of birth control). They were perhaps put on the Mirena to deal with some of the above symptoms of hormonal imbalance, or for contraception. Many of them noticed that their symptoms became worse after insertion of the IUD.
How the Mirena IUD and Birth Control Works:
The Mirena works by secreting small amounts of progestins, a synthetic form of progesterone, into the uterus and surrounding tissues. While it is not fully known how the Mirena works, the end result is a suppression of ovulation. This results in either very light periods or a complete cessation of periods until the IUD is removed (after 5 years when its hormones run out).
It is important to say here that, while birth control can certainly treat the symptoms of hormonal imbalances, it does not correct them.
All forms of birth control, with their synthetic versions of the hormones estrogen and progesterone, simply induce further hormone imbalances in the body. They introduce versions of hormones that may suppress or alter symptoms (such as heavy and painful bleeding, or acne), but the versions of hormones are not fully recognized by the body and therefore don’t fully replace all the hormones’ important functions, such as mood regulation, immunity, or blood sugar balance.
The effects of both altering the body’s natural hormonal balance, while ignoring the underlying cause of hormonal issues, is often what causes symptoms to continue or worsen.
For example, women with PCOS are prescribed birth control to manage acne or promote monthly periods. However, when women with PCOS miss periods, it is because they are not ovulating. The missed periods are not the problem; the lack of ovulation is.
Despite that, many women with PCOS experiencing amenorrhea (or missed cycles) will be prescribed birth control. However, birth control does not address the underlying cause of amenorrhea. It simply further suppresses ovulation (because its main purpose is to prevent unwanted pregnancy).
The periods you get while on birth control are not periods. Periods from birth control are withdrawal bleeds. After 21 days of taking hormonal pills, pills are stopped or replaced with placebo pills. The withdrawal of hormones in the pills induces a bleed that resembles a period, but is not one.
Hormonal contraception does not correct hormonal imbalance, it imposes further hormonal imbalance to manage symptoms. This is not always bad!
But it is an important difference.
Many women do require symptom suppression, particularly if their symptoms are severe. Many individuals in my practice experience periods so heavy that the only way for them to get through the month is with an IUD. Genetic variability in how our bodies process hormones can make us susceptible to intense hormonal symptoms, through no fault of our own.
In my opinion, however, it is important to attempt to address the underlying cause and to set our bodies up for better hormonal regulation, making as many changes as our lifestyles will allow.
What You Can Do About It:
If you are like any of the people I described above who seek my help, there are a few things that you can do to get started on correcting hormones.
Working With a Professional:
The first thing I advise is finding a licensed naturopathic doctor or functional medicine practitioner who understands hormones, can order lab tests, and will address the underlying cause of your hormonal imbalances by taking the time to fully understand your body and lifestyle.
This practitioner might be a naturopathic doctor (you can find one in North America by looking one up at naturopathic.org), or a medical doctor, a chiropractor, or a highly skilled nutritionist or nurse practitioner. Research this person well, read their articles, and perhaps book in with them for a complimentary meet and greet.
Testing:
I often test patients using simple blood tests, on day 21 of their cycles (or about 7-9 days before they expect their next period).
I will test their blood, looking for anemia, will test iron and B12 levels, homocysteine (to gauge their ability to methylate), vitamin D, cholesterol (to see if their diets are promoting proper hormone synthesis), estradiol, estrone (the more toxic, problematic estrogen), progesterone, free testosterone, a thyroid panel, fasting glucose and fasting insulin (to calculate insulin resistance using something called the HOMA-IR), HbA1C (to look a long-term blood glucose control), FSH and LH (two hormones made in the brain that talk to the ovaries and orchestrate the menstrual cycle), DHEA-S, to name a few.
Some women will require more testing. Others will require less.
These labs are interpreted from a functional perspective. Even though you are in the “normal” ranges (which take into account the entire population, many of which are not healthy—they are seeing their doctors, after all!), these blood markers may not be optimally balanced, giving us an opportunity to correct things before they go further.
Testing allows us to match symptoms to underlying imbalances and to be able to properly direct treatment protocols. Women with estrogen dominance may be experiencing high levels of estrogen and normal progesterone, which indicates a body burden of estrogen or impaired liver and digestive system clearance. Other women may be experiencing normal levels of estrogen but low progesterone, indicating a failure of their bodies to ovulate, due to high stress, and PCOS (or the Mirena IUD and birth control pill).
Other options for hormonal testing are month-long salivary hormone testing, or DUTCH testing, which looks at hormone breakdown in the urine. I sometimes run these tests, but find that blood testing is useful, accurate, and more cost-effective.
Treatment:
Once you understand your individual hormonal situation through testing (and through working with a practitioner who is putting the testing together with your symptoms and health history), your practitioner may recommend a variety of treatments.
I personally combine diet and lifestyle with key herbal and nutritional supplements, to target what is going on under the surface with my particular patients.
These treatments may include herbs that boost ovulation, aid liver detoxification, or regulate the stress response. I might recommend nutraceuticals that encourage methylation, or aid in hormone production.
My treatments take into account the individual’s symptoms, labs, diet, lifestyle, and any other health issues she may be facing like fatigue, digestive disturbances, or poor sleep.
What You Can Do Today:
Barring more individualized assessment and advice, there are some best lifestyle practices that can help most women balance their hormones better, whether they are still using birth control to control and address their hormonal symptoms or prevent pregnancy.
Diet:
When it comes to diet and hormone support, we need to ensure that we are balancing blood sugar, boosting liver detoxification pathways, promoting hormone synthesis, and supporting digestion, especially if experiencing constipation.
Consume more leafy greens: kale, spinach, collards, beet greens, arugula, etc. Eat 1-2 cups of these foods every day. Leafy greens contain active folate, which boosts methylation and detoxification. They also contain magnesium which is essential for hormonal regulation as well as 300 other important biochemical reactions in the body that balance mood and hormones.
Consume more cruciferous vegetables: broccoli, cauliflower, brussel sprouts, cabbage, bok choy, etc. Eat 1-2 cups of these foods every day. Crucifates help the body make glutathione, and contain indole-3-carbinole, which helps eliminate excess estrogens from the body. Broccoli sprouts are potent players in these pathways. Consume them as often as possible.
Ensure adequate dietary fibre intake: I often recommend ground flaxseeds or chia seeds in smoothies, avocados, fruits and vegetables and legumes (if tolerated) to make sure that women are having regular bowel movements to clear excess estrogens out of the body. 2 tbs of ground flaxseed (or more) every day can help balance estrogen levels and promote daily bowel movements.
Balance blood sugar: consume protein, fat and fibre at every meal. Avoid refined starches and flours. Avoid all sugar, even natural sugar like maple syrup, coconut sugar, cane sugar, honey, agave, etc. Try stevia or avoid sweets. Limit carbs (grains, legumes, root vegetables like potatoes or sweet potatoes, to 1/2 cup to 1 cup per meal). Only consume whole grains like quinoa, buckwheat, steel cut oats, millet, and teff. Cook them yourself!
Avoid soy, particularly processed soy, like vegan burgers, or soy milk.
Consume omega 3 fatty acids in fatty fish like salmon and sardines, or nuts and seeds like flax and chia seeds, walnuts, and pumpkin seeds. Get 2-4 tablespoons of these nuts and seeds every day and 3-4 servings of fatty fish a week.
Consume animal products: eggs contain choline, which is essential for liver function, meat contains vitamins B6 and B12, which are essential for hormonal regulation and production. Cholesterol in animal products are the backbones of our sex hormones. Iodine, found in animal foods, regulates estrogen balance in the body. If possible, try to obtain organic animal products from pastured or free-range animals to boost omega 3 intake, to lower your impact on the environment, and to promote animal welfare.
Other Lifestyle Practices:
Boost progesterone production by managing stress:
Establish a self-care routine: plan regular vacations, even small outings, do meditation or yoga, take breaks from work, spend quality time with family, have a plan to get your work done on time, ask for help.
Sleep! Aim for at least 8 hours of sleep, and try to get to bed before 12am. Practice good sleep hygiene by avoiding electronics before bed, keeping the bedroom as dark as possible, and setting a bedtime and wake time, even on weekends. Body scan meditations and some key supplements can be helpful for resetting circadian rhythms. Regulating blood sugar can have a major impact on improving sleep. Talk to your functional medicine doctor or naturopathic doctor for individualized sleep solutions.
Eliminate exposure to toxic estrogens and boost estrogen clearance:
Avoid exposure to xenoestrogens: whenever possible use natural body products, deodorants and shampoos, or “edible” body products for face and hair. Avoid plastic water bottles and plastic food containers. Use natural cleaning products around the house. Avoid fragrances and processed foods, especially processed soy.
Encourage sweating: get regular exercise or engage in regular sauna therapy. If you don’t have access to a sauna, epsom salt baths can also work—anything that helps you sweat. Heat therapy has also been shown to benefit mood and the stress response.
Heal your digestion: make this a priority with your naturopathic doctor, so that you can absorb the nutrients from the foods you’re eating as well as encourage daily bowel movements and optimal microbiome balance.
Maintain a healthy weight: body fat is metabolically active and can increase overall estrogenic load. Work with your naturopathic doctor to manage your weight. We often attempt to lose weight to become healthy, however I find my patients have far more success (and fun!) getting healthy in order to lose weight. Healthy weight loss often involves managing stress, sleeping 8 hours a night, avoiding sugar and processed foods, and regulating blood sugar, as well as encouraging proper sweating and liver detoxification.
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Mindfulness philosophy tells us that our thoughts and emotions are simply phenomena that arise in our bodies and minds: they are not us.
Those of us who suffer from depression and anxiety tend to enter cycles of over-thinking. The mind wanders and engages in self-focused rumination that feeds negative emotions, worsening mood.
While ruminating, we think about the causes and consequences of our depression; we reflect on mistakes we’ve made in the past, we dwell on our perceived personal faults, and we speculate about how we’ll fare negatively in the future.
This kind of rumination becomes a scratch-itch cycle that causes us to feel worse.
However, learning to engage the contents of self-focussed mind-wandering as a non-judgmental observer may be the key to stopping this cycle.
Those who are able to step back and become aware of awareness or think about thoughts, as opposed to getting lost in them, tend to have better control over their thought processes as a whole, and thus their emotions. Mindfulness involves taking a non-judgmental, curious stance about the contents of the mind, as an impartial witness.
Studies show that mindfulness, or taking this non-judgmental, curious stance, can change brain areas associated with rumination, and emotional regulation.
This fall I took a course to obtain a facilitator certificate for Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), an evidence-based 8-week program that aims to treat depression and anxiety through imparting mindfulness skills. Because of the growing evidence base on the benefits of mindfulness for stress and mental health, the facilitator program attracts many medical professionals.
One of the course participants, a psychiatrist, didn’t like me. I noticed her frowning in my direction every time I spoke. She deliberately avoided and ignored me, talking to everyone else in the course but me.
As the only naturopathic doctor in the group, the other participants showed some curiosity towards my field. When I answered their questions, the psychiatrist’s face seemed to twist into a subtle expression of disgust and disapproval.
She thought I was a quack, a hack; I didn’t have enough training. She assumed I wasn’t qualified enough to provide care to those who suffer from mental health concerns. I could feel her judging energy from across the room every time I lifted my hand to answer a question, or make a comment. Her deploring gaze scrutinized my every move.
I was a naturopathic doctor and she, a psychiatrist. We had emerged from different worlds, philosophies, and backgrounds—we were from incompatible ends of the mental health professional spectrum. Of course she didn’t approve of me: it was only to be expected.
We were spending all day meditating, and this is the story my mind had decided to write.
At the end of day 3 of the course, with days of evidence selectively compiled to support my story about this disapproving psychiatrist’s opinion of me, I left class to head for the bus stop. Waiting for the same bus was no one other than my nemesis.
Great, I thought. I smiled at her, stiffly.
She smiled at me.
“Talia, right?” She asked.
I nodded: yes, Talia.
“You’re the naturopath, right?” She inquired, brows kneaded together in a frown.
I nodded again, bracing myself. Are we really going to do this here?
But then, time-space cracked and split open, revealing an alternate universe to the one in my own head. Her face melted into a warm grin, “Oh, I love naturopaths!” She exclaimed warmly.
She went on to describe her wonderful encounters with the members of my profession who had attended to the various personal health concerns she’d faced.
“I’m so interested in holistic health for managing mental health concerns,” She said, before leaning in a bit, conspiratorially, and adding in hushed tones, “You know, psychiatry doesn’t work.”
I stood there, dumbfounded.
Her particular opinions about psychiatry aside: not only was the entire story I’d written and held onto for the past few days wrong, it was way wrong. I had fabricated an entire story in my head, corroborated by what I had been convinced was real evidence. The realization of how avidly I’d bought into this story, as if it were simple fact, was earth-shattering.
My story, had just been that: a story, conjured up by thoughts. These thoughts bore no relationship to reality at all, no matter how convincingly they had presented themselves.
It rare to have the opportunity to experience our mental constructs and biases topple so dramatically. The mind has a tendency to rationalize away any evidence contrary to our beliefs—”Well, I only passed because I got lucky”, or “The test was easy”, or “She said she liked my hair—liar”.
Very few of us entertain the idea that our thoughts and emotions don’t represent our ultimate reality.
According to Mindfulness Theory it helps to think of our minds as movie screens and our thoughts, emotions, and body sensations as contents of the movie. We can watch the action, identify with the characters, and follow the plot with invested interest. The movie can inspire thoughts and emotions within us, both positive and negative. The movie can grip us; we might lose ourselves in the drama, forgetting that we are mere witnesses to it.
It can help to remember that we are not the movie. Sometimes it’s helpful to remember that we’re not even acting in the movie.
No matter how deeply the film may move us, we can always take the stance of movie-going witness. We can take various perspectives in relation to the drama on screen. We can immerse ourselves in the drama, losing our sense of self completely. We can remember that we are audience members, enjoying a film. We can ignore the movie altogether and laugh to a friend sitting beside us. We can be aware of the contents of the movie theatre, the people sitting around and behind us, or the sticky floor under our feet. We can even leave the theatre, which we will certainly do once the credits roll—it’s just a movie after all, a distraction from the reality of our lives.
In the way that we approach the contents on a movie screen, we can take various stances towards the contents of our minds.
Meta-awareness is the act of remembering that we are movie watchers—the act of becoming aware of awareness itself. When we practice meta-awareness, we take a non-judgmental view of our thoughts and emotions, watching them arise in our bodies and minds like the drama in a movie arises onscreen.
We can easily identify with the tens of thousands of thoughts that appear on the movie screens of our lives. We may be convinced that we’re unloveable, that we’re failures, or that life is hopeless, simply because these particular thoughts have appeared in our mind’s screen. We can also identify with positive thoughts, such as the idea that we’re excellent swimmers, or good fathers.
Our thoughts may reflect reality—we may have the thought that if we step into a pool of water our feel will get wet—but simply having a thought does not create reality itself.
While taking the bus that day, I realized that I had unwittingly cast my psychiatric colleague as the guest-star of People Who Are Judging Me, an episode in Unloveable: The Series, which is a piece of entertaining fiction that my mind has written, directed, produced, and cast me as the lead in. I often forget that I’m simply an audience member watching the movie of my mind’s creation—this movie is not necessarily the truth about my life.
Research has identified a network in the brain called the Default Mode Network (DMN), that connects the lower brain areas, like the amygdala and hippocampus, with higher brain centres in the prefrontal cortex. The DMN is active when our minds are wandering and is particularly active when those with depression are ruminating and engaging in narrative self-referencing: or attributing one’s self as the cause of (negative) events in one’s life—for example, interpreting an expression on someone’s face to be a look of disgust and assuming it’s because they disapprove of your profession.
Meditation, particularly practicing meta-awareness, can produce shifts in the DMN that decrease rumination. Practicing meta-awareness allows us to rescue our identities from the tyranny of thought. We watch and detach from thought, watching them rise and fall in the mind without clinging to them. By becoming aware of our thoughts and emotions and taking a curious attitude towards them, we can break the cycle of rumination, thereby supporting our mental health. Observing thoughts, rather than becoming lost in their drama, allows us to feel and behave independently of them.
For example, simply having the thought, “I’ll always be alone,” doesn’t have to produce a negative emotion, if I recognize it as just a thought.
We might reframe the thought “She hates me” to be: “I just had a thought that this person hates me. It’s just a thought that I have no way of knowing for certain is true. I will smile warmly at her anyways. I might be completely wrong.”
Or, we can do nothing, waiting until the thought “She hates me” passes through the screen of our minds.
We can turn off this particular movie, and put on a new one. After all, we can’t stop the flow of thoughts: there will always be others to take their place.
Lesson learned: I am not my thoughts.
And: some psychiatrists are way more hippy than I am.
Estrogen levels in the brain and body affect our brain’s levels of dopamine and norepinephrine, two neurotransmitters that are implicated in mood disorders like depression, psychosis and anxiety.
Our brain has several built-in recycling processes to keep us level-headed. When neurotransmitters (brain chemicals that have mood-regulating effects) are finished with their tasks, enzymes recycle them, breaking them down into their chemical parts to be reused again at a later date. This process controls the level of chemical nervous system stimulation in our brains and keeps our moods regulated.
You’re at home, late a night, working on an important assignment, driven by the excitement of the topic at hand. Your brain is flooded with dopamine, a brain chemical that is connected to positive mood and motivation, pleasure and reward; dopamine pathways are activated when we’re engaged in a task that is pleasurable and rewarding, when our lives are flooded with meaning and we’re working towards a goal. Dopamine, however can also be connected to psychosis, conditions like schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, and also be linked to impulsive behaviour, aggression and irritability, when over-expressed.
Typing happily, you near the end of your assignment. Suddenly, your computer screen goes dark. Your heart begins to race, your skin prickles and you’re overtaken by anxiety, panic and fear. Your body is releasing norepinephrine, a chemical connected to stress, anxiety and the “Fight or Flight” response, but that also allows us to feel alert and energized. Your heart pounds as your reboot your computer. You are hyperaware of the sounds and smells around you. Your skin prickles and your breathing is loud and rapid.
You exhale with relief as your computer screen lights up again, revealing that your assignment is unharmed. Stress drains out of your body, and your norepinephrine levels fall. You begin to tire; it’s time for bed. You add some finishing touches to your work, hit “save” and turn in for the night. The stress and motivation you felt only hours before dwindle, as the neurotransmitters responsible for these responses are swept out of your synaptic clefts and recycled.
When our brains have had enough stimulation of dopamine (mood, reward, pleasure, but also aggression, irritability, impulsivity and psychosis) and norepinephrine (stress and anxiety, “Fight or Flight”, but also alertness and energy), both get recycled through COMT, which pulls them out of circulation, breaks them down into their chemical parts, and reassembles them for later use.
We all have variability in how fast our COMT enzyme works, based on the expression of the COMT genes in our DNA. Some of us have slower COMT genes, meaning that our brain levels of dopamine and norepinephrine tend to be higher than other people’s, as our ability to clean up and recycle these hormones is slowed. This might result in an individual (depending on other genetic and lifestyle factors) who is at a higher risk of mental health conditions like psychosis or bipolar disorder, or someone who is more irritable, prone to aggression, or stress intolerant.
Others have more COMT gene expression, resulting in a faster enzyme that clears dopamine and norepinephrine more quickly, resulting in lower brain levels of these neurotransmitters. If other factors are present, these individuals may be more at risk for mental health conditions such as depression, low mood, lack of motivation, or susceptible to addictions.
Beyond genetics, there are several environmental and biological factors that may affect the speed of the COMT enzyme. One of these factors is estrogen. Estrogen slows the COMT enzyme down by as much as 30%. This means that when estrogen levels are high (seen in many women around ovulation or premenstrually, or in women with generally high estrogen levels, termed “Estrogen Dominance”, COMT performs more slowly and dopamine and norepinephrine levels remain elevated.
Depending on the extent of the problem, women with high estrogen often experience anxiety and irritability and a low tolerance for stress. On the more severe end of the spectrum, some women experience conditions such as PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoria Disorder) or PMS-induced psychosis, resulting from abnormally high brain levels of dopamine and norepinephrine due to high estrogen. These conditions probably result from a combination of high estrogen, slowed COMT and other genetic and lifestyle factors. Xenoestrogens from environmental toxins, or birth control pills may also slow COMT and further exacerbate some of the symptoms of estrogen dominance.
Conversely, women with lowered levels of estrogen, such as those with amenorrhea (missed menstrual cycles) from various causes—PCOS is one, so is the birth control pill, especially progestin-only pills, or hormonal IUDs—or women who are peri-menopausal or menopausal, will have a faster COMT enzyme. This means that dopamine and norepinephrine will be cleared from the brain more quickly. Low levels of these neurotransmitters may result in depression: low mood, low energy and lack of motivation. On the extreme end, low levels of dopamine in the brain may result in conditions like Parkinson’s. Currently, research is being done on estrogen-replacement therapy as a treatment for Parkinson’s because of its ability to increase brain dopamine levels through slowing COMT.
When it comes to birth control pills, which are combination of synthetic estrogen and synthetic progesterone (“progestins”), or just straight progestin, either in pill-form or in a hormonal IUD, effects can be unpredictable. There is evidence that oral contraceptive use, especially progestin-only contraception, can exacerbate anxiety and depression, especially in teens. The pill acts by suppressing ovulation and suppressing natural hormone production, which may result in low levels of naturally-occurring progesterone and estrogen, which can slow COMT. However, the synthetic estrogens from the pill may interact with COMT, speeding it up in some women. Therefore the effects of specific forms of birth control on individual women is hard to predict; if functional medicine and genetic research tells us anything, it’s that there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to striking the right hormonal balance.
Estrogen also has effects on another enzyme, called MAO-A, that recycles serotonin, the “Happy Hormone”, often implicated in depression and anxiety. Like COMT, estrogen slows down MAO, reducing the speed at which the body breaks down serotonin, resulting in higher brain serotonin levels. Drops in estrogen around and before a woman’s period, or low estrogen levels, may result in feelings of depression. Many women report feeling depressed and craving carbs and sugar around their periods. This is often related to a drop in serotonin as estrogen levels fall right before menses. Drops in serotonin levels due to drops in estrogen levels after childbirth may explain postpartum depression, according to some researchers.
The link between estrogen and its effects on COMT and MAO hint at the complexities of the body and brain’s hormonal milieu and its implications for hormonal regulation and mental health. Mental wellness is a complex state involving a variety of factors: hormones, enzymes and neurochemical pathways that are affected by our environment, our genetics and our hormonal predispositions. This is why I believe in taking a functional approach to mental health, seeing our mental health symptoms for what they are: symptoms, and making efforts to uncover underlying causes rooted in lifestyle, genetics and our environment. I believe the way to address symptoms is to trace them back to their source.
For many women, treating depression, anxiety and stress-intolerance may involve balancing estrogen levels and healing the menstrual cycle. For others it may involve supporting genetic susceptibilities with lifestyle changes, finding a birth control method that balances (or coming off entirely), and reducing exposure to xenoestrogens, supporting estrogen detoxification pathways, and addressing women’s health conditions such as irregular menses, and conditions like PMS, fibroids, endometriosis and PCOS.
I talk about root causes of anxiety, the most common mental health condition, and what to do about it from a functional medicine perspective.
Hi, everybody, Dr. Talia Marcheggiani here. I’m a naturopathic doctor who practices in Bloor West Village, in Toronto and today I’m going to talk to you guys about the roots of anxiety.
Anxiety is the most common mental health condition. It affects about 18%of North Americans and it encompasses a wide range of different diagnoses including generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, OCD, phobias, PTSD and depression, and social anxiety. It’s a huge umbrella of different conditions. So the first thing I do when I meet my patients is try to understand how anxiety manifests for them. The word anxiety means very little to me. What I care about is how the symptoms are manifesting in my individual patient in front of me and how it affects their life. So, I’ll ask them what does it mean when you tell me that you have anxiety? Walk me through a situation when your anxiety gets triggered, tell me what it’s like to live inside your shoes, inside your head, what kind of things do you worry about? What goes on in your body? And, how do you know that you have anxiety? Did you decide that you had that diagnosis or did someone else give it to you and what do you feel or think about having that diagnosis? Do you agree with it? Do you disagree? Do you have any doubts? The symptoms of anxiety encompass the body because it affects our nervous system, every single bodily organ is affected, potentially, by anxiety and some people have some of the symptoms or all of them and sometimes very few, just the mental and emotional symptoms, and many of us don’t even identify with having chronic anxiety or anxiety disorders or anxiety symptoms.
First of all, we have the mental symptoms. People with anxiety will commonly experience worrisome thoughts, anticipatory anxiety, so, being worried about the immediate future or the distant future. They might feel irritable or excited, they may have depressed mood. A lot of the people I see with anxiety have this kind of “chilled out” demeanour because it’s very common for someone who’s got a high level of anxiety in their body to dissociate a little bit from those feelings and appear very calm. They kind of describe it as a duck on a pond. On the surface, you see this calm animal, just floating along, but when you look under the water you see the duck legs busily working away and so that’s how a lot of people will describe their mind. They say, on the surface I’m really calm, but once you look under the surface, you see that there’s a lot of mental activity and a lot of worry that’s happening.
There may be fears, such as specific fears, such as phobias, or just general fears, like in the case of generalized anxiety disorder, or fears may be triggered in certain situations like in the case of social anxiety. Insomnia is very common, an overactive and busy mind is very common, fatigue is another common symptom as well as difficulty concentrating, memory loss, brain fog. So all of these conditions that show that the person who’s experiencing anxiety and who is dealing with anxiety is distracted and focused on other things, rather than what’s right in front of them. So a lot of the time my patients will describe an inability to feel present and feel connected and enjoy the moment. Their mind is always on something else. Sometimes the anxiety is based around specific concerns and sometimes it’s just very general and it doesn’t really matter what’s going on in someone’s life, there’s this sense of impending doom that they’re dealing with on a daily basis. Anxiety and depression are very common, they’re comorbid mental health conditions, and it’s very difficult to tell the difference a lot of the time. There’s a hypothesis that they’re similar conditions, or the same condition, but one is a more extraverted, so that would be anxiety, version of depression, which is a more introverted and internalized manifestation of the same disease process. This is still a hypothesis, but it makes some sense and it resonates with a lot of people that I talk to.
Then we have the bodily symptoms of anxiety. A lot of people will experience muscle tension, aches and pains. This is typically in the shoulders where they carry their worries or they’ll find themselves tensing their muscles without being aware of it. They may experience twitching, and they experience pain from the tight muscles. There’s also sensory symptoms, such as ear ringing, hot and cold flushes, changes in vision, tingling, numbness, muscle cramps. It’s very common to have cardiovascular symptoms, such as a racing heart or heart palpitations and this often occurs in people who have panic attacks, which often sends them into the emergency room, because it can be difficulty breathing, racing heart, chest pains, sweating, all these kinds of autonomic symptoms that one might experience if they were having a cardiovascular event, can occur in someone with anxiety or panic disorder. It can be really frightening.
Then there’s gastrointestinal symptoms, so there’s definitely a connection between IBS and anxiety. And those of us who don’t necessarily suffer from anxiety but have experienced nervousness, which I’m sure we all have, will notice that our gut is definitely affected and we may have looser bowels, bloating, difficulty digesting, or we might not have an appetite or want to eat. And this all common in people who have chronic anxiety. Genitourinary symptoms, such as frequent urination, or frequent thirst, often leading people to think that they have diabetes. Also, there might be a delay in urination, so you feel like you have to go to the washroom, you go to the toilet and then there’s a moment where you can’t really go, and you’re trying to wrestle with yourself, which is really common. So urinary hesitancy, it’s called. And then we have the autonomic, so the symptoms that are related to the autonomic, or automatic, nervous system, such as a dry mouth, dilated pupils, sweating or flushing, and this also related to our GI symptoms.
So, these are just a few of the anxiety symptoms. And, as you can see, they affect pretty much every single system in the body. Our nervous system, which is what is affected in anxiety, consists of our brain, our spinal cord and all of our nerves. Nerves that go to and from different body organs and our nervous system is divided into the voluntary and the involuntary, or autonomic, nervous system and our autonomic nervous system is divided into the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems. So our sympathetic nervous system is the “fight or flight” nervous system. This gets turned on when we sense an immediate danger and our body is primed to respond to that danger.
The parasympathetic nervous system is turned on when we’re sleeping and digesting, and when we’re a state of otherwise calm, when there is no danger around. You can think of these two systems as a seesaw. One gets turned on while the other gets turned off and our body should be able to toggle back and forth between these two arms of the autonomic nervous system easily and without getting stuck in either one and depending on the situation and what’s going on. So imagine that you’re walking through the forest, and you’re feeling calm, and you’re feeling at peace, and then you look down at what you think is a stick on the ground that starts to move, your autonomic nervous system is going to kick you into the sympathetic, fight or flight, response. In this response your body will be primed to either fight, flight, run away, or freeze. And these three responses are what will get us away from the danger or meet that impending danger and this is what our body will respond with in order to ensure our survival when there are dangerous situations that we’re faced with.
Once that danger’s gone, we’ve either fought, flown, or frozen and the danger has forgotten about us and left, we’ll return to the parasympathetic nervous system. We need the parasympathetic nervous system turned on when we’re eating and when we’re sleeping. If we have problems, so if we get stuck in that fight or flight response for too long, either because we perceive there to be danger, or our body simply can’t switch back into the parasympathetic state, we’re going to have problems with feeling relaxed, sleeping soundly, and digesting our food properly.
Those of us who are experiencing chronic stress, our nervous system is just taxed, and we’re in the sympathetic nervous response far longer than we should be, because we’re constantly facing deadlines, or we have a lot more responsibility and a lot less control, on our plate, we’re going to experience this feeling of chronic stress. This will exacerbate someone who’s already got a predisposition towards anxiety. There’s a hypothesis, or personality theorists hypothesize that some of us are just born with a higher level of neuroticism as part of our constitutional tendencies. So I see that a lot of anxiety will run in families, especially in female patients, many of them will have grown up with a mother who suffered from anxiety. So there’s definitely a nature component to the nature-nurture debate in terms of what causes anxiety. So, while we can’t really affect our nature, or our genetics, we can affect how those genes are expressed and we can look at the environmental factors that might trigger those genes to be expressed. So that’s what I’m here for. My goal as a naturopathic doctor is to take a full assessment, understand what someone’s symptoms of anxiety are, what the external factors, the environment of their life is like, and look for potential causes that might be exacerbating the anxiety, making it difficult for them to function and perform and live the life that they know they can live. Living a life that’s full of abundant health.
So, the first cause that I want to talk about is chronic stress. when we’re stressed out, like I described when we encounter that snake in the grass, our body will release hormones called norepinephrine and epinephrine. Those are our fight or flight hormones. Those are short-lived, and when those run out, our body starts to make cortisol. Cortisol is a more long-term stress hormone. However, when we’re stuck in that sympathetic state our body becomes, well a theory is that our body becomes unable to produce as much cortisol for long periods of time, that our adrenals get “fatigued”. Another theory is that our brain stops responding to cortisol and we develop a kind of cortisol resistance. And this we’ll see with a lot of brain fog, memory loss, difficulty concentrating, there’ll be a lot of weight gain, especially around the abdomen, and people will experience a lot of inflammatory symptoms, so that’s when we’ll see joint pain and muscle aches and, potentially, worsening of depression as cortisol can kind of motivate us and get us going, because, if you think about it, when we’re in a state of fight, flight or freeze, that’s an action-oriented state, once our body stops responding to that, we enter this kind of burnout and exhaustive phase.
What’s more, once our body stops responding to cortisol, in order to maintain that sympathetic tone, to stay in that fight or flight state, that for whatever reason our body is turned on to, we start to make those catecholamines, norepinephrine and epinephrine again and that contributes to those symptoms of anxiety. So essentially what anxiety is is a high cortisol, high norepinephrine state, where we have that racing heart, we have those tense muscles, we’re looking for danger and our body, for one reason or another, expects that there’s some kind of danger that it needs to defend itself against.
So, not all stress is bad stress. You think of a new mom, she’s full of love and all these feel-good hormones, but the lack of sleep, the added responsibility, all of the things that having a new baby might mean to her and her life, are going to contribute to more stress hormones going through her system. And so I’ll ask a lot of my patients if they’re stressed and, even though I’m kind of getting a sense of high stress from them in terms of their level of busyness, and their level of downtime and just the demands on them in their day-to-day life, a lot of them will say that they don’t feel stressed, that they love their job. So it’s not about whether you love your job, or whether or not you love the things that are, basically, getting piled onto your plate, it’s your body’s perception of those things. So, our body does well when it has enough down time, it has enough restful sleep, and it gets enough breaks. So that keeps that toggle from the sympathetic nervous system, to the parasympathetic nervous system, fluctuating in a healthy way, without getting in one or the other.
Another common cause of anxiety that I see, or definitely a factor that exacerbates anxiety symptoms, is blood sugar imbalance. So, when we wake up in the —a lot of us wake up in the morning and we have cereal, or we have those packaged oatmeals. So, in North America we eat high-carb, high-sugar breakfasts, or we skip breakfast, or we just eat a lot of carbs and sugar in general throughout the day. When you eat a food that’s high on the glycemic index, that contains a lot of easily digestible carbs or refined flours and sugar, we get this immediate spike in blood sugar, as those sugars are absorbed directly into our blood stream. When we get this high level of sugar, we might feel a lot of energy, we might feel really good, we get a lot of dopamine release, and it feels pretty awesome, we get a lot of immediate energy that our body can use. But then, because our body wants to maintain a certain level of blood sugar, what gets released next is a hormone called insulin. Insulin helps that glucose, that sugar, get inside of our cells, where we can use it for energy. If our blood sugar shoots up too high our body sends more insulin into the blood stream to lower that sugar. Sometimes it sends too much insulin and our blood sugar plummets, we get hypoglycaemia symptoms: dizziness, “hangry”, irritability, weakness, fatigue, you’d kill someone for a piece of toast kind of situation, and carb cravings, and we respond by eating more carbs and the cycle begins again. That can exacerbate anxiety because our energy levels are going to be rising really quickly and falling really quickly. Stress hormones are going to get triggered everytime we enter a hypoglycaemic state. And, because cortisol also releases sugar into the blood, so cortisol and insulin work together. Going through this eb and flow of blood sugar, basically riding the blood sugar rollercoaster, is going to exacerbate and mimic a lot of the anxiety symptoms that I described. So a lot of people I talk to, when they’re experiencing anxiety, oftentimes, during the day when they’re experiencing anxiety, it’s between meals, or it’s after a high carb, high sugar meal. And, so a big part of managing their anxiety, or at least creating a terrain where their mental health can function optimally, and their emotional wellness has a chance to function optimally, is to get their blood sugar nice and level. And this means adding protein and fat to every single meal, lowering those refined carbohydrates, beginning each day with a high-fat, and high-protein breakfast. Nutrient deficiency is another really big cause that I look for when it comes to anxiety. So, the happy hormone, serotonin, which is implicated in both depression and anxiety, that’s what the antidepressant and anti-anxiety drugs like cipralex or prozac act on, so those selective-serotonin re-uptake inhibitors. This is a hormone that gives us a feeling of satisfaction, it gives us a feeling of uplift, it’s often what tanks when we crave carbs, and so eating carbohydrates kind of perks our serotonin levels up. In order to make serotonin, we need an amino acid called tryptophan, which we get from protein, and we need the vitamins B6, magnesium, B12, and zinc, and iron. And those take tryptophan and turn it into another amino acid called 5HTP, which then gets turned into serotonin. And then, once we have enough serotonin, that gets turned into melatonin, which helps us sleep and regulates our circadian rhythms. So any break in either of those pathways is going to result is us having lower levels of serotonin and melatonin available to our nervous system for us to have proper mental and emotional regulation. When we’re stressed out, our demand for those nutrients goes up, because our adrenal glands are also sucking in a lot of those nutrients to make cortisol and the catecholamines. Protein is super important, not just for blood sugar regulation, but to give us the amino acids that we need to make the proper neurotransmitters. So, I mentioned serotonin, I also mentioned norepinephrine and epinephrine and other ones include dopamine, GABA, which is a nervous system calming neurotransmitter, glycine, another nervous system calming neurotransmitter, and a good source of glycine is collagen, or gelatin, which I’ve mentioned in other videos. See the “8 Foods for Mental Health”, and tyrosine, which makes dopamine and also makes the catecholamines. So we need tryptophan, which makes serotonin and melatonin, we need GABA, which makes GABA, and that calms our nervous system down, we need tyrosine, which makes dopamine, this is a feel-good hormone that helps us seek rewards and feel motivated, and energized, also tyrosine gets made into thyroid hormones, again, which helps us feel energized and keeps our energy levels stable and our metabolism revved up, and the catecholamines, norephinephrine and epinephrine, which we need for that fight or flight response and that we’re going to be burning through a lot more quickly when we’re in that fight or flight response. And then glycine, another nervous system-calming amino acid. And glycine also helps balance the nervous system. Typically we don’t suffer from protein deficiency in North America, but I see it more and more, especially low-quality sources of protein. So, chicken nuggets, yeah they have chicken in them, but they only have about 10 grams of protein and a ton of trans fats and a lot of processed carbohydrates. So, although we might be eating hamburgers and chicken fingers and omelettes on waffle, we’re not necessarily getting enough good sources of protein. So, ensuring protein from things like legumes, nuts and seeds, clean animal products, fish, like salmon, and white fish, are all really important and I often suggest people get 30 grams of protein per meal, so three times a day, but it depends on your weight, it depends on your energy demands and it depends on your lifestyle and how stressed out your are, because our demands for protein definitely go up during stress. It also depends on how level your blood sugar is and if you’re getting those hypoglycaemic symptoms, sometimes those people need to increase their protein, while decreasing some of the carbohydrates, especially those refined carbohydrates, and give their body more fibre-rich carbohydrates that the body has to work harder to extract and release into the bloodstream. Another really common cause, or contribution, or exacerbation to anxiety is iron deficiency. So I see this a lot in menstruating women. It’s not super common in young men to have iron deficiency, but women who are menstruating every month, especially women with heavy periods, and who are experiencing fatigue, definitely need to get their ferritin levels tested. So, ferritin, in our blood, will tell us what our iron stores are like. So, how much iron we have available to our tissues. Iron is useful for participating in lots of different chemical reactions in the body, as part of normal metabolism, but it’s also important for caring oxygen to our tissues and oxygen is what we need in a process called oxidative phosphorylation, which gives us energy. So, no oxygen, no energy. And what will happen is, if we lower levels of iron in our blood and lower levels of oxygen, our heart starts to beat faster in order to send more volumes of blood to our tissue. So, it figures, if, with each heartbeat, i’m not sending as much oxygen, if I just double up my heartbeats, I might send double the amount of oxygen and try to meet the demands of the tissues that I’m sending oxygen to. You can kind of figure out, then that quick heartbeat mimics those heart palpitation symptoms of anxiety and can trigger some anxiety symptoms. Iron’s also go this grounding affect. It gives us this nice, level energy. And there’s a very specific feeling to iron deficiency fatigue that a lot of women may have experienced. It’s not quite like a sleepiness, or a lethargy, it’s a very specific feeling of just depletion. So it’s important to get ferritin checked and then find a kind of iron that you can take every day to build your levels up, at least for a few months, and one that’s easily absorbed.
So, another reason why iron might be low is in the case of leaky gut, or malabsorption syndrome, so this can occur in somebody with inflammatory bowel disease, or celiac disease, where the intestinal cells are just not able to absorb as many nutrients, or somebody with IBS, so, just generally sluggish digestion, inefficient digestion, perhaps a lack of stomach acid, or a lack of those digestive enzymes that help us absorb our food. IBS and leaky gut are other common symptoms and causes of anxiety. So it’s kind of a chicken or an egg situation. Our gut bacteria produces serotonin, dopamine. We’ve got about 5 trillion in our gut, and that’s about 10x more cells than we have in our bodies. For the most part, when it comes to a cell-to-cell basis, we have 10x more gut bacteria than we have cells. So we’re more gut bacteria than us. Our gut bacteria, there’s good ones, there’s bad ones, we haven’t been able to isolate all of them, there’s very little, relatively, that we know about the microbiome, but a lot more research is coming out, especially in the area of mental health. We know that these gut bacteria can make their own neurotransmitters. They can even specifically ask for food, so a lot of people with sugar cravings have a dysbiosis going on where the gut bacteria need those refined carbohydrates and that sugar, in order for them to grow. And so they’re sending out ghrelin, or hunger-stimulating signals to try and get us to eat more sugary foods. Our gut bacteria also make most of the serotonin in the body and our gut cells also make most of the serotonin in the body. So if we have unhealthy gut cells, they’re not going to be able to regulate our nervous system. And if we have an imbalance in gut bacteria, again we won’t be able to regulate our nervous system, because we won’t be producing those neurotransmitters that we need to balance and to be able to toggle seamlessly between the parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous systems. The gut is also where a lot of our immunity lies. And our immune system is going to be the cause of low-levels of inflammation, especially if there’s a little bit of autoimmunity or food sensitivities, or allergies going on. Low levels of inflammation are going to affect our brain. So there is a hypothesis that depression is caused by low-grade inflammation in the brain. We don’t have pain receptors in our brains, so we ‘re not able to detect inflammation in the way you would with an inflamed knee. If you injured your knee or had arthritis in your knee, and you would notice that your knee was red, and swollen and it would hurt to touch and you wouldn’t be able to walk on it. We don’t get those symptoms in our brain because of the lack of pain receptors and so how brain inflammation might manifest is brain fog, difficulty concentrating, depression, anxiety, mental chatter, negative self-talk, negative thoughts, those symptoms that are really common, mental symptoms, in something like depression and anxiety.
There’s a lot more we need to research about this, but there’s something called LPS, lipopolysaccharide, that’s produced by some of the “bad” gut bacteria. When rats were injected with lipopolysaccharide, or when human volunteers were injected with lipopolysaccharide, we mimic the symptoms of depression. When those same patients and rats were given EPA, which is a very anti-inflammatory fatty acid that’s from fish, marine sources like salmon and sardines, the depression symptoms went away. There’s also some studies in depression with prednisone and corticosteroids, which lower inflammation really rapidly. They come with a host of side effects, so that they’re not that great of a remedy for depression, but they actually lowered depressive symptoms. There’s a lot of a connection, that we’re noticing, between inflammation and depression and anxiety and we’re just not sure to the extent that inflammation causes depression. I tend to think that, probably most cases of depression and anxiety have some kind of inflammation present, especially when we consider that just chronic, turned on, sympathetic nervous system and high levels of cortisol is going to contribute to a cortisol resistance in the brain and increase neuroinflammation, especially in the hypothalamus.
We also know, as I mentioned before that symptoms of anxiety and symptoms of IBS often go hand in hand. And so, a lot of the anxiety symptoms that people will get are looser bowels, bloating, loss of appetite, just difficulty digesting their food. And a lot of symptoms that people with IBS will get are anxiety. And one of the treatments for IBS are selective-serotonin re-uptake inhibitors, which, you guessed it, are also drugs that treat anxiety.
So another common cause that fits really well into my practice, my focus is on mental health and hormones, and these two areas overlap, probably more than they don’t overlap, it hormonal imbalance. So, especially in women, men have their own host of issues when it comes to hormonal imbalance, but women, because our hormones are cycling and going through different phases all month long, we’re more susceptible to problems with proper hormone regulation, especially in the face of female endocrine disorders such as PMS, PMDD, PCOS, all of the acronyms, endometriosis, fibrocystic breasts, and just dysmenorrhea, so painful and heavy menstruation, or irregular cycles. So all of these point to symptoms of hormonal imbalance. Estrogen and progesterone are the two female hormones and they do have effects, yes on the ovaries, and they control ovulation, they control building up of our uterine lining and shedding of the uterine lining, when those two hormones fall away, and that causes our period to occur, so they definitely control our fertility, but they also have affects on other tissues in the body. One of those tissues, one of those organs, is our brain, our nervous system, so estrogen can work a little bit like serotonin and, so what you might notice, right before your period when your estrogen levels drop, or women that are going through menopause and have a drop in estrogen levels, is you’ll get irritable, you’ll get depressed, and you’ll crave carbs like crazy. And a lot of women get something called premenstrual dysphoric disorder, where they have fluctuations in their estrogen levels. So, lowering of estrogen, or insufficient estrogen, may cause some of those more depressive anxiety symptoms, progesterone acts like a GABA agonist, which, I mentioned before, is a calming neurotransmitter. So, lower levels of progesterone, and I see this in a lot with women who have something called “estrogen dominance”, I have another video on this, and women with PCOS as well, and women who have high estrogen symptoms, or conditions such as endometriosis and fibroids, and fibrocystic breasts, and those kind of symptoms, or conditions where estrogen levels tend to be high, and progesterone levels tend to be low or deficient, they’ll often have anxiety with these symptoms. And lower levels of progesterone, especially premenstrually, often are related to low mood and anxiety, and cravings. So, looking at hormones, especially when the patient sitting across from me has a lot of menstrual issues, and irregular cycles and all of the other things I mentioned, I’ll definitely look into hormones and promote proper estrogen detoxification and building up of progesterone. A common cause of low progesterone is being in that fight or flight state. So, now I’m starting to reveal how this web interconnects, how everything is tangled together and how cortisol and blood sugar all relate to everything. So, cortisol, it uses the same precursor to make progesterone, and, when our body needs more cortisol, it will steal progesterone from the system to make cortisol. Because our body has to prioritize sometimes, and getting away from that snake in the grass, and saving our life is more important than making babies to our body in the short-term. So, we suffer in the long-term if that snake in the grass never goes away and we’re always kind of worried about juggling all the things in our lives. But a lot of women who are chronically stressed, or are in that sympathetic nervous state, will have lower levels of progesterone, so doing a lot of adrenal support is one of the ways that we help their bodies build up some progesterone.
And then, finally, I think I mentioned before, there’s a reason that we have anxiety, it’s not an irrational fear. A lot of the time when I sit across from patients, the things that they’re worried about are legit things to worry about. Maybe they’re out of work, or there’s financial worries, maybe there’s just so much on their plate that it’s difficult to find any time for themselves, or make ends meet, maybe they’re unhappy with their career, they’re relationship is in jeopardy. There’s all kinds of things that people deal with on a daily basis. And then, that being said, there’s also people who are just primed to be more neurotic than others, based on that spectrum of neuroticism in terms of personality and constitutional predisposition. And I think we know this, there’s some people who are just a little bit more anxious than others and that diversity in human personality probably helped us evolutionarily and so I think there was obviously an evolutionary advantage for someone who’s nervous system was a bit more responsive. Those people could get away from danger, they were expecting danger more often, and they probably ended up surviving and passing their genes on to their ancestors more readily than those who were way too laid back and didn’t think about danger and got themselves into risky situations.
So, those who are a little bit more neurotic may be predisposed to negative thinking, over-estimating the negative outcomes of certain events or maybe engaging in critical self-talk. Especially in the case of post-traumatic stress disorder, PTSD, there’s definitely a connection between early childhood trauma, or just trauma in adulthood, some of these experiences can teach us to turn our nervous system on, or to get triggered more easily as a way of surviving in the future. There’s different areas of psychotherapy that deal with these phenomena, and they term them different ways, but they can be called core beliefs, or certain mental schemas, so when our brain experiences very strong emotions, the amygdala wires those emotions down in implicit memories. They’re really tightly wired and those memories get triggered again whenever there’s a situation that reminds us of the situation that wired down those responses. It might be a certain smell, or a certain sound, or a certain song, something that activates those memories, that may not be conscious, because the amygdala is pre-verbal, will trigger those feelings of fear and prime our body to respond. And the problem is that we’re surrounded by potential stimuli all the time that can trigger that. And so, really understanding what triggers anxiety symptoms, where those triggers may have come from, and bringing those memories up to the cognitive, cerebral cortex and rational mind, so that we can help dissolve those memories, is a big part of psychotherapy and how we manage anxiety with psychotherapy. Especially if we think the cause of anxiety may be related back to some sort of childhood trauma or implicit memory that was consolidated.
Those are some root causes of anxiety that I would look for as a naturopathic doctor, among many others. What an intake will look like is a 90-minute conversation with the person in front of me where I get to know them, and understand the environment surrounding the phenomena of their symptoms, the symptoms themselves, and all of the other different factors that might be contributing to the anxiety that they’re displaying. So, I’ll ask about period health, I’ll ask about sleep, I’ll ask about their energy levels, I’ll ask about any other physical symptoms they might be experiencing, their digestion, what their stress levels are like. We’ll go through a review of systems, looking at every single organ system and trying to create a tabulation of how anxiety might be manifesting for them, and we may even explore what their core beliefs are, or implicit memories are in future visits. And we’ll talk about diet. And then I’ll make some recommendations as I begin to understand what those root causes of anxiety might be. So we’ll look at whether they may be experiencing nutrient deficiencies, leading to an imbalance in proper neuroendocrine production, if there might be some inflammation going on, if they may be experiencing some digestive issues, or some hormonal imbalances, or if there’s chronic stress going on in their life. And so what we’ll do is, once we find out the causes, we’ll engage in some psycho-education, so I really believe in empowering my patients to understand their bodies, to be able to notice when things are triggering them, to notice what exacerbates their anxiety, what makes it better, and to develop a self-care plan where we’re eating right, we’re thinking right, we’re exercising right and we’re getting enough rest, if possible.
So that’s the gist of it, that’s Root Causes of Anxiety, my name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani, I work in Bloor West Village in Toronto.
I talk about 5 essential tools for caring for your mental and emotional health. These are powerful self-care practices that can help balance your mind and emotions.
Hello, everybody, my name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani. I am a naturopathic doctor with a focus in mental health and hormonal health.
Despite the increasing amount of research into mental health conditions and psychiatric conditions, and the increase in interventions and early recognition and pharmaceutical therapies that come with mental health diagnoses, we’re actually seeing more debility in mental health outcomes: more debility, more morbidity. So we’re seeing worsening of outcomes even though we’re applying more interventions.
So, how could this be? You expect that the better the drugs that we’re developing, the less disease we should encounter, if those drugs are actually working to counteract the disease process. We’re not seeing that in the realm of mental health, especially when it comes to the common conditions such as depression and anxiety.
And when it comes to disease in the west, we’re not really winning the war against disease. So, things like cardiovascular disease, cancer, hormone imbalances such as diabetes, hypothyroidism, mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety, ADD and ADHD, infertility, neurological disease such as MS and Parkinson’s, autoimmune disease, such as, again, MS and things like Hashimoto’s Thryoiditis and myasthenia gravis, and immunodeficiencies such as HIV. All of these diseases are on the rise, all of these chronic, lifelong diseases. And so, despite these advances in research and drug development, we’re not seeing an improvement in our ability to manage these diseases or prevent them.
And there is obviously not one simple solution to this problem, but one thing I want to point our attention to is this increase in stress and this connection to stress and the diseases that I mentioned. Obviously it’s not just one cause, that would simplify the entire system to an almost ludicrous degree, but there is an estimation that 75-90% of hospital visits are either directly or indirectly related to stress.
And some of the symptoms of stress, so chronic stress or even acute stress, are an increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, elevated blood sugar, decreased memory and cognition, disrupted levels of serotonin, leading to depression and anxiety, disrupted levels of the other hormones such as dopamine and norepinephrine, and addiction to stress, so a chance in the opioid receptors and the brain structure, altered hormone synthesis, increased inflammation, altered gut flora, etc., etc., and a change in the immune system. So, basically, every system of the body is affected by stress. And being in a prolonged, acute state of stress is lethal to the body.
So, we can look at the rise of cardiovascular disease and diabetes and the fact that stress increases our heart rate and increases our blood pressure and increases our blood sugar. And we can make some of those connections between the symptoms of stress and the diseases that are increasing in our society.
When it comes to mental health, we see how our neurotransmitters and our brain structure and our gut and our immune systems are affected by chronic stress and we can infer that some mental health conditions are either caused by or aggravated by this chronic stress situation. And, so, by not addressing stress and by not looking into stress and finding healthy ways to manage it, we’re doing ourselves a disservice in the management of these diseases and the prevention of them,
So, there’s a few theories that connect—there’s that Monoamine Hypothesis when it comes to mental health, that people with depression and anxiety have this inherent brain imbalance. So they don’t make enough serotonin, or their brains for some reason aren’t responding to serotonin. Again, it’s a very reductionistic model because it reduces all of the experience of depression and anxiety and conditions such as ADD and ADHD and bipolar down to one single neurotransmitter and it oversimplifies the entire system and the entire constellation of symptoms that people can experience and the life situations surrounding these conditions and the fact that they’re comorbid with things like stress and poverty and childhood trauma and those kinds of things.
But there’s some other theories that we can look at, and some other kind of pieces of the puzzle that we can add to create a more inclusive narrative. So there’s a theory called the Mind-Body Theory and this kind of arises as a counteraction, or a counter-philosophy to what Descartes discovered or decided that he discovered, which was that the mind and body are separate entities—this dualistic hypothesis. We know absolutely that that’s not true but our mind and body are completely connected and that our mind probably doesn’t reside only in our brain because our nervous system extends throughout the entire body and our minds are also inter-relational, so they’re a product our environments and our relationships with other people as well.
We know that the gut is the second brain, for the amount of neurons that it inhabits and the neurotransmitters that influence its function. Our gut health affects our mood depending on how healthy it is. And we call this connection, another word for it, a more scientific word, is “Psychoneuroimmunology”. This is the connection between the immune system, the nervous system, and our psychology, our mood: our thoughts and emotions. So, we know that everything in the body is interconnected and you can’t prescribe an antibiotic and not expect that there’ll be sequelae or consequences, or side effects that affect a different body system. And we see that all the time now, but we have to understand how tugging on one thread in this interconnected web is going to affect another piece of it further down the line.
There’s also this Energetic Model of mental health, and that’s that the emotions have their own energy. There’s this theory that the emotions can manifest as physical symptoms and we see this in the work of Gabor Mate, who writes extensively about stress and addictions and mental health, in his book “The Body Says No”. He talks about how the health of our thoughts and emotions impact our physical stress. And so it’s not just that our thoughts and emotions can impact our mental health, but also our physical health and might set the stage for us to get conditions like cancer, or autoimmune disease, and all of the other diseases that I mentioned.
So, when it comes to stress and our mental health and emotional wellbeing, we need to take a proactive approach. Just like we do with getting vaccinations, and preventing colds and flus, and getting proper nutrition, and exercise and all of that, we need to be strategic about how we manage our stress.
The World Health Organization defines mental health as “A state of well-being in which every individual realizes his or her own potential, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to her or his community.” So, notice that this definition isn’t simply the absence of disease and it’s not necessarily a normalizing—being “happy” or not having a diagnosis. This definition is about realizing one’s potential and experiencing emotional “wellness”, for lack of a better word. So, an ability to cope with life’s stressors and to live a life of meaning and purpose.
So I want to talk about 5 tools that are really important for establishing a self-care and emotional wellness routine, for improving mental health. These strategies may not be sufficient enough for more serious psychiatric conditions, but I believe that they form the foundation of proper lifestyle strategies to help with increasing our emotional wellness and our ability to cope with life’s stressors.
So the first one I want to talk about is something called “Self-Care”, which is becoming kind of a buzzword in high-stress communities such as universities, and even some offices and corporations. So, one of the first things I want to talk about is the power of saying “No”. Sometimes saying No, especially for more agreeable individuals, and a lot of the time for women, saying no is a difficult thing for us to do.
When I give this presentation to a group I always ask them, “Why is it hard for you to say no? What would happen if you didn’t say no? Let’s say a friend invites you out and you’re just not feeling it, or you’re invited to a baby shower and it’s just more than you can handle and you wish you could say no, but you don’t.” And, one thing that everybody says is that they’d feel guilty, if they said no. This is sort of universal. And so I ask them, “What would happen if you didn’t say no? What would happen if you went along with it, even if you just didn’t have the energy to devote to this commitment?” And people say that they’d feel resentment. And so when it comes to deciding what things to take on and what things to discriminate against in terms of the tasks that we take on, the commitments that we make, we’re kind of stuck between this dichotomy between feeling guilt and resentment spectrum. One of my mentors, Gabor Mate, in his book “The Body Says No”, talks about when faced with this choice between guilt and resentment, especially when we’re more prone to guilt-avoidance by saying yes more often than maybe we should, he said “choose guilty every time”, because the feeling of guilt, and obviously this isn’t a hard or fast rule, but the feeling of guilt is more indicative that you’re taking care of yourself.
His theory as well is that resentment tends to build up in the body and contributes to the cause of more disease such as cancer and this cancer personality that he writes about is the woman that will say yes to things and is scared to say no out of guilt. So, resentment is far more damaging for the body and therefore, when trying to avoid guilt, maybe move towards guilt, especially when you know that you might be taking on more than you should. And also pay attention to the idea that when we say yes to things we’re saying no to other things. So, we’re always saying “no” and “yes”. We only have 24 hours in the day and so, by saying yes to that baby shower that you’d rather not go to, what are you saying no to? Are you saying no to doing a yoga class for you, or getting extra sleep, or saving your money for a family vacation? So, paying attention to those commitments that we make. There’s a great article online called “The Law of F- Yes! Or No.” And this law is, if you’re faced with a decision and you’re not feeling like this, “F- Yes!”, then say no and save that time and save those commitments for something else that you’re more enthusiastic about.
When it comes to self-care, there’s another great article that talks about the BACE method, so that’s BACE. And this stands for these 4 pillars of self-care. And the first one of body-care. So that’s making sure you have a healthy diet, that you’re supporting yourself nutritionally, that you’re getting movement in, that you’re sleeping enough. A is acceptance, just allowing the emotions, and that self-care, that self-love to come through. C is connection, so establishing those interpersonal relationships and prioritizing them, especially relationships that feel nurturing, where you can be your authentic self. And E is enjoyment, finding activities that are fun and cause a sense of enthusiasm and enjoyment in your life. And this is something that’s often a problem for a lot of adults with lots of responsibilities that, when I ask them to rate on a scale of 1 to 10 how much fun they have, or how satisfied they are with the amount of fun in their life, they often rate it pretty low.
A lecture that I attended, there was a woman who was talking about self-love and improving self-worth and recommends asking oneself this: “what would someone who loves themselves do? Or say?” and that can be pretty powerful for just examining how our internal dialogue is manifesting and how we’re talking to ourselves and treating ourselves. Would someone who loves themselves eat that? Or say that? Or do that activity or say yes to that commitment? And, you know, just sitting with that question can be really helpful for changing some behaviours, or adding perspective to our daily lives.
There’s also this, lastly in the realm of self-care, there’s this idea of Wu Wei, which is a Taoist idea, which is translated roughly into the art of “effortless action”. In our society we’re kind of educated to pair action with effort. So, we don’t feel like we deserve success unless our success was the result of a massive amount of effort that we’ve put in, and stress. And, according to wu wei, this idea that action is objective, we can measure it, but effort is subjective. So, you can see if you’re performing an action, but the perception of effort behind it is this kind of subjective and thought-based experience. So, we can do the laundry or DO the laundry. We can do laundry from a place of self-love and self-care, like “I want to care for my clothes, and to have nice clothes to wear tomorrow and I’m going to do this for myself and I’m going to be mindful as I do it”. And I’m going to do this out of necessity, but also out of a natural drive that’s coming from this place within. Or I can have laundry on my to-do list that’s causing me stress. So, sometimes even wu wei is about doing less and not feeling guilty for that.
The second tool for emotional wellness is journalling and writing. This is one of my favourites. So, journalling allows us to keep a record, to get creative, and to engage in self-expression. And when we write we engage both sides of our brains: the motor centres, the language centres, the centres that are involved in language perception and in language generation, also our visual centres. So, a lot of the brain is lit up in the act of writing and that can help integrate some of our deeper thought processes.
Writing down things leads to clarity and focus. We’re forced to deepen our thought processes and remove ourselves from some of the cognitive loops we might be engaged in. We can complete our thoughts and reach their inevitable, often ridiculous conclusions and this kind of comes from some core beliefs, or, we call them “automatic thoughts.” Like, “I’m a failure” or “I’m worthless”. Those kind of things that our brain generates based on past experiences that may not be relevant anymore to who we are now. Through writing we’re forced to look inside of ourselves, to causes and explanations for how we feel. We’re also able to express ourselves and rid the body of pent up emotions, such as anger and aggression and sadness, shame.
I often recommend that people write a letter. Especially if there’s someone in the past that’s done damage to them, or hurt them. Someone that they miss, sometimes remembering somebody through a letter: sometimes people wish that they could communicate with someone who’s passed away or is no longer in their life anymore and, through this letter-writing, you’re able to.
I also have people write letters to themselves from the perspective of their personality at age 80, and this can sometimes provide perspective for patients who are depressed and young, because it gives them an idea; it increases the perspective of their lives. And sometimes I have people personify and anthropomorphize their problems or addictions and write letters to that or write letters from that and through that process can learn a lot about the relationship between themselves and alcoholism, for example.
There’s another great activity I like called the “God Jar”, for people that have constant worries or wake themselves up at night and process things or who are anxious about the future—The God Jar or the Wish Jar. And so, you get a mason jar and little pieces of paper and you write things that you’re worried about or things that you’re anxious about or thinking about and you scrunch them up and throw them into this jar and, in essence, symbolically, you’re giving those problems to “God”, or to the universe or you’re just simply filing them away for later use. And this is sort of a subconscious, or conscious, dumping of your problems, especially if you don’t have immediate control over them. I mean, in the middle of the night you’re not going to be able to finish your taxes when you’re supposed to be sleeping, or solve a problem at work. And that can often worsen our problems, when we’re not getting enough sleep. Then I sometimes have people open up that jar 6 months later and take a look at some of the things they’ve written and that can also generate feelings of accomplishment and achievement and perspective when you find out that those things that you were so worried about 6 months ago are no longer even relevant and you barely remember them. So, it’s pretty powerful.
Another great exercise is something called a Gratitude Journal. And there’s a Ted Talk about this that, for 21 days, and I like to tell people to do this for a full month, 28 days. If you write 3 things that you’re grateful for at the end of the day for 21 days, it actually changes your brain structure and helps you see things in a more positive light and focus on the blessings, rather than the things that you lack. Our brains have a negative bias. So, they’re wired to pay attention to the things that we’re missing out on and that we’re lacking and when we focus on and acknowledge the things that are going right for us, it can sort of change our perspective. And, throughout the day, as you’re doing this exercise, you’re going to be paying attention to things that you’re going to have to write down later, so you’re paying attention to the things that went well, that you want to include in your gratitude journal. And this can have profound effects.
There’s some studies about journalling. And there was a study that showed that patients with HIV or AIDS, who wrote about their life for 30 minutes had an increased CD4 T cell count—and that’s the cells in the body that are affected by the HIV virus. So, by simply writing about their lives, something profound, it wasn’t just a grocery list. But writing something profound about their lives, such as sharing their life story, actually increased their immune system’s ability to function in the face of the HIV virus.
And then, similarly, there was another study in patient with rheumatoid arthritis—this is an autoimmune condition—they had these patients write for 20 minutes a day, for 3 days, and they found that their symptoms went down and their immunoreactivity went down. So we’re seeing these two studies, and we’re not exactly sure of the causal effect, these studies are a little bit correlative and very difficult to control for, because patients who are in the study, subjects know if they’re writing in their journal or not. But these studies were controlled against people who were just kind of mindlessly writing about grocery lists. So, it was writing about more profound concepts and sort of outlining a significant life event, or life story, or significant events that were happening in the day that had an emotional charge to them.
So, we find that engaging in journalling, even 20 or 30 minutes a day, can actually modulate the immune system. So, if you have a immunodeficiency issue, like HIV, it can increase immunoreactivity, and if you have an autoimmune disease like rheumatoid arthritis, or asthma, if can lower that immunoreactivity and inflammation. So there’s this evidence that journalling and our thoughts and emotions are directly impacting our immune system and our immune system’s ability to function and balance itself.
The third tool for mental and emotional wellness is interpersonal support. And, being a naturopathic doctor who does a lot of counselling in my practice, I tend to favour psychotherapy and counselling as a form of social support for people that don’t feel that they can be authentic or have that deep connection with people in their lives.
There’s evidence that loneliness is the new epidemic, especially in our society and, as social animals, connecting with others is part of our biology, part of who we are. Through therapy, what I really like about it, is it can help us reframe the past and our personal identity. We can start to identify some automatic thoughts and core beliefs, which are deep-seated beliefs that may not serve us anymore in the present and may actually be contributing to feelings of low mood or behaviours that are unwanted. It can also allow us to rewrite our life story, so, looking back on the past and reframing certain events, from the perspective of someone maybe with more resources and power. For example, someone with a history of trauma may have an idea of powerlessness and being victimized and, in every single story of trauma that I’ve encountered, people have always responded in some way. Either psychologically, mentally, emotionally, if not in action, and sometimes just recognizing these responses changes our whole perception of the event and our identities in the present, our ability to act in the present. So, there is evidence that stress is related to our perception of things that happen, not actually what happened. So, for example, imagine somebody that’s just broken up with their girlfriend and they were very in love. And you can image what their mental and emotional state would be like. Maybe the next day they don’t feel like getting out of bed, there’s clothes all over the floor, they haven’t brushed their teeth, they’re feeling extremely sad, and crying. And nothing has changed biologically in this person, but the situation surrounding their life has changed. Then imagine that this person wakes up the next day and they’re in this state of low mood and depression. And they get a phone call. And it’s their girlfriend saying, “you know, I’d like to get back together, I made a mistake, I’m in love with you and I don’t want to be broken up anymore.” So you can imagine that this person’s mood is going to change rapidly as the situation changes. And so, there is a change in their circumstances, but not in their physical biology.
And sometimes, in past events, there’s the story that our minds create around what happened, and then there’s the actual events that happened. So you might call your partner and they don’t pick up the phone, and we start to create a story about why that is. Maybe it’s because they don’t love us anymore, they want to break up with us, that we’re worthless, that no one’s ever loved us, that we’ll never find love, that we’ll always be alone. But, in actuality, we don’t know those things and the only thing that’s happening is they’re just not picking up the phone and there’s thousands of explanations for that.
We perceive situations based on our personal histories, our physical conditions, our state of minds, etc., and things that we’ve learned in the past and also our core beliefs. So, we filter our experiences through our perceptions and our identities and personalities and so, by understanding more about these things, we can understand why we pick out certain events and draw conclusions from the connection between those events rather than others. There’s some people that, when they fail a test, they just think, “Oh, it was a hard test, or maybe I didn’t study hard enough.” And there’s others that think “I’m a failure, I’ll never pass anything, there’s no point in trying, I’m dropping out of school.” And so it’s not just the event but our perception of the event that change our thoughts, mood and behaviours.
Another great thing that therapy and social support can do, is help us identify our passions and purpose in life. So there’s a psychological that I really like to listen to called Jordan Peterson that talks about how the purpose of life is not necessarily well-being and happiness, because happiness is a state that can be derived chemically, through doing things like cocaine, or substance abuse, and happiness might just be a disposition that certain people embody better than others and that life is suffering. And this is present in Buddhist philosophy that no matter how we live, we’re going to encounter events that are devastating for us, and that are hard for us to deal with. And so, in those situations, we’re not going to feel happy, so what’s going to drive us? What’s going to push us forward? What’s going to keep us going in those times and so his theory or idea is that we should look for what makes it worth it: what adds meaning to our life. What is our potential in life? What is our purpose? What gives us that sense of meaning such that, when we encounter these situations of suffering and hopelessness that we’re able to continue on. So, having a direction for our lives, and having a sense of identity and purpose that gets us up in the morning and makes us move forward, even when we’re not particularly feeling happy that day.
Therapy and social support are also great for just self-acceptance. So, having other people mirror back to us who we are and how we’re being in the world.
The 4th tool for emotional wellness is mindfulness and meditation, so very very powerful tools. It’s arguably very difficult to be healthy in this day and age without some form of mindfulness meditation, or meditation practice to combat the increase in stress that we encounter in our society. So, mindfulness is—there’s many different techniques, but the main tenant is just taking the perspective of the compassionate, detached observer to our thoughts, emotions and physical sensations. So, when we split our mind or watch our thoughts, we can get a better sense of awareness of how emotions and thoughts arise in our body, pass through our bodies, and how we’re not them—that there’s this observer role that we can also take, that we can watch ourselves from.
Mindfulness allows us to stay in the present and reframe certain situations and just slow time down so that we’re not victims to the whims of our biology, that we’re able to understand it a little bit more. And there’s a great resource on the internet called “Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction” that’s a secular kind of meditation by a man in Massachusetts called Jon Kabat Zinn and you can download body scan meditations or take a course in MBSR in your town. I highly recommend them; they’re really great for developing mindfulness practice.
There’s also yoga, and qi gong and tai qi, and these kind of integrated, mindfulness-based and physical exercises that can help slow us down, bring us into the present and help us observe our minds and emotions a little bit better. And there’re amazing for managing stress. There’s good evidence building about them helping us deal with stress and manage our mental health conditions.
And the 5th tool for mental and emotional wellness is to look at that mind-body connection that I mentioned before. The mind-body theory sees our thoughts and emotions as energy that can impact our cellular biology, from that idea of psychoneuroimmunology. And there’s increasing evidence about this and how calming our thoughts down, doing some mindfulness meditation, can affect our heart-rate and can affect our blood pressure, and journalling can affect how our immune system responds.
There’s this idea that if our thoughts and emotions aren’t processed properly they can become trapped and stagnated in the body and contribute to disease. So, Gabor Mate mentioned that resentment can build up and lead to things like cancer. It’s one of his theories that he’s observed through working with patients.
We know that there’s this connection between physical manifestations of symptoms and physical conditions and certain emotional causes. In medicine we know this because every time a study is done, a randomized control trial, two groups need to be divided amongst the subjects. One is given a placebo, an inert pill. And this idea that someone who believes they’re taking medicine will notice a positive effect, is something that we just take for granted, but we build into every single study that we do, if it’s a good study. So, this idea that you can take a pill, believe it’s helping you, and actually physically notice a change in your body is really remarkable. And this just proves that there’s this connection between the mind and body, that we can further explore and exploit.
So, there’s things like herbal remedies that help our body increase our cells’ resilience to stress and help manage the stress hormone cortisol. And these are some herbs called adaptogens. So, they literally help us adapt to stress. And these are things like withania or ashwaghanda, rhodiola, ginseng, even nervine herbs like St. John’s Wort and skullcap can help balance our neurotransmitters and our stress hormones and lower inflammation in the body.
Doing self-care things like getting a massage, or getting acupuncture can help. And there’s a study that compares acupuncture to Prozac, so getting one acupuncture session a week for 6 weeks was actually comparable to Prozac for decreasing symptoms of depression and anxiety.
In my practice I always address diet and gut health and just make sure people are absorbing their nutrients, that they’re guts are producing the proper amounts of neurotransmitters, that there’s the proper bacterial balance, that there’s no inflammation being caused by a gut dysregulation. And we also want to remove those external stressors that can be contributing to an impaired digestive system. So, there is this saying that “we are what we eat,” but more accurately, we are what we absorb, because you can eat a lot of stuff, but, depending on how you’re digestion is functioning, we might not be absorbing all of it and incorporating it into our body, into our cells.
So, inflammation in the gut, caused by a bacterial imbalance, or food sensitivities can impact our health and we have some evidence that depression and anxiety can be caused by some latent levels of inflammation in the brain. And we know that there is an impact on gut health and increasing levels of inflammation and also stress. And really lowering that stress response, healing the gut, can have huge impacts on our mood. Establishing routine, and sleep are major pillars. So, I don’t think I’ve ever encountered a patient who felt mentally healthy when they had disrupted sleep. A lot of the time having a ritual around sleep and getting into a routine and waking up at the same time every day, really working on getting deep sleep—so avoiding electronic use before bedtime, trying to get as many hours before 12 am of sleep as possible, so preferably having a 10pm bedtime or winding down around 10 pm. Doing things like teas, or hot baths, or reading a book before bed or doing some yoga or stretches or meditation before bed to teach the body that it’s time to start relaxing is really important and has huge impacts on health, on our mood, on our emotional wellness, our ability to cope with stress, our ability to heal from stress, and our ability to balance inflammation and the immune system.
There’s evidence that exercise—I mean exercise is arguably the first-line therapy for someone with depression, especially someone under the age of 24. Instead of reaching for pharmaceutical interventions, such as selective-serotonin reuptake inhibitors, more psychiatrists are recommending exercise to young patients, which is wonderful. I’m so happy about that! And, so 30 minutes of a moderate to intense form of exercise such as weight training, or running or moving your body, can help release some of those trapped emotions, as well as boost those neurotransmitters and help our body increase its resilience against stress.
And then, finally, I just want to point out that making sure that we’re supporting our neurotransmitter synthesis through diet is really important. So, making sure that we’re getting enough magnesium, zinc and B vitamins, and proteins and amino acids, which are all helping us create the neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine that are going to impact our mood and mental health. So, we can journal, but we are physical beings, and we are a product of our biology. So, by supporting that biology through proper nutrition, we’re able to incorporate those nutrients and create the proper components of our body for proper mental and emotional wellness.
So, I also like to ask people this miracle question. So, this is the final thing that I’m just going to conclude on. The Miracle Question is from a modality called “Solution-Focused Therapy”. And this question is, “if you woke up tomorrow and all of your issues were completely gone, you woke up in an amazing 10 out of 10 state of energy and physical well-being and mental and emotional well-being, what would be possible for you? What would your day look like?” If you can stand in that place and sort of write down what you’re aiming at, what you’re aiming towards, it helps set the stage for taking the proper actions that preserve your mental and emotional wellness. And it also helps you stand in a new territory, one that’s not of disease or illness, but one of possibility.
And, finally, I was at this free meditation circle as we were talking about self-love, and we were talking about how difficult it can be to love oneself. Because, oftentimes we have these core beliefs that drive our psyches and oftentimes these core beliefs are negative. And so what was said was that it’s often hard to stand in a place of self-love when you’re intent on changing things and you’re not happy with where you are now. And so, he said, the person running the meditation said, “self-love is like a garden. So, you can nourish the soil and water the seeds, but you can’t actively force the garden to grow.” So what you can do is, you can take care of the things you love in yourself, all the things that you have in your right now, rather than trying to be somewhere that you’re not currently at. And this is kind of like when you have, for parents out there, if you have a child, you love your 4-year old child, and you don’t put expectations on them that you would a 25-year old. So, you’re loving your 4-year old at where they’re at, but also recognizing that this is somebody who is developing and so you’re loving their potential to develop, just as you’re loving their 4-year old incarnation, their 4-year old manifestation of their personalities. So you’re loving their potential to grow, just as you love the seeds that you’ve planted in your garden, but you’re also loving things where they’re at. And through that act of self-love and tending to the garden, or tending to your child, you’re encouraging that growth and development in the directions that you want.
My name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani. I’m a naturopathic doctor and I work in Bloor West Village, in Toronto.
The 6-2-6 breath is a yogic breathing technique that can help calm the mind, benefitting feelings of anxiety and overwhelm.
Hello. My name is Dr. Talia Marcheggiani. I’m a naturopathic doctor and mental health professional. I focus my practice on mental health and emotional wellness. I’m just at home right now with my dog, Coco, and we’d like to show you a very quick meditation that you can do.
This is a great thing to do. It’s something I teach my patients to do when they’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed out at work. It’s a great way to combat anxiety and depression as well as a really great way to dive into a meditation practice if you don’t already have your own practice.
Encouraging patients to engage in mindful activities like meditation is indeed a valuable strategy for mitigating stress and promoting mental well-being. As individuals navigate the challenges of modern life, finding effective coping mechanisms becomes increasingly crucial in combating anxiety and depression. Moreover, incorporating meditation into daily routines not only offers a reprieve from stress but also serves as a gateway to cultivating a deeper sense of mindfulness and self-awareness.
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I also find just spending 3 to 5 minutes a day to sit and focus on the breath, especially deepening the breath, is a great way to dive into meditation and establish your own meditation practice.
So all you have to do is start by either sitting in a chair with your back straight and your feet flat on the floor or in a cross-legged position. You can put your hands on your knees, but what I like to do is tell people to start with their hands on their lower abdomen. That way we can practice moving the breath into the lower abdomen, feel the abdomen rise and fall with the breath, and thereby ensure that we’re sending our breaths down into the belly as we breathe.
It’s called the 6-2-6 Breath. It’s very simple, so all you do is breathe in for a count of 6, hold the breath for a count of 2 and breathe out for the count of 6. By lengthening our inhales and exhales we’re able to stimulate the vagus nerve, which activates the parasympathetic nervous system. This is the “rest and digest” arm of the autonomic—think “automatic”—nervous system in the body. When we’re in a state of stress, overwhelm or depression, we’re usually in a sympathetic of “fight or flight” state and by calming and deepening the breath we’re also able to calm the body, establish a sense of safety within the body, and calm the mind and emotions.
So I want everyone to just close your eyes and breathe in. Start by deepening your breaths. You should feel your hands rise and fall as you breathe.
So when you’re ready let’s begin our inhale for the count of 6. So, inhale, 3, 4, 5, 6, and pause for 2, exhale 3, 4, 5, 6. Pause, 2. And inhale 3, 4, 5, 6. Pause, 2, and exhale, 3, 4, 5, 6. Pause, 2, inhale, 3, 4, 5, 6. Pause, 2, exhale, 3, 4, 5, 6. Pause, 2, inhale, 3, 4, 5, 6, pause, 2, exhale, 3, 4, 5, 6.
So you can continue doing this breath. I recommend spending 3 minutes just settling into the breath and body. You can do this while at work. You can do it at home, you can do it before bed to calm the body down, to help with a more restful sleep. I like how it helps us move out of the space of overwhelm, stress and anxiety, centre into our body and establish more possibilities for clarity and for ways to move forward in overwhelming situations.
Let me know what you think, try it yourself and leave your comments or questions below. You can also follow my blog at taliand.com.
